5 Thousand

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Go out to la. [00:00:02] Speaker B: Comin from the city where no pity is. Shell. Shell. Somebody need to do a song for la. [00:00:06] Speaker A: Straight up. [00:00:13] Speaker B: Hello, my name is Elaine and I'll be your tour guide through South Central Los Angeles. [00:00:18] Speaker A: Look, count my dough and smoke up. I'm from California, where you from? [00:00:23] Speaker B: So what? [00:00:24] Speaker A: I'm from California. California. California. [00:00:27] Speaker B: California, this is Los Angeles. Well, where we going? [00:00:31] Speaker A: Work. [00:00:33] Speaker B: I'm telling you, came up missing out my money, Joe. I'mma let your ass know this one time. One time. Where my money at, Joe? I'm sorry, man. That is hilarious. A 5012 cow. You understand what I'm saying? This is from my brother, 12 cow. 5,005 for five quick questions. Five, four, five. Shout out to 12 cow. All right? Because he said question number one. Are you working in your chosen profession? I am, I am. I think there's other, there's other things that I want to get, you know, more acquainted with, more into as well. But my current field that I work in, you gotta have a lot of passion for this. Got to been doing this over. I started working on Skid row back in 2009. Worked worked down there on for about two years. So two years on skid Row and then I got into the mental health field. And I feel like the, you know, the two year training that I got on Scare Road helped me out in my current field right now, which is helping people. So yeah, I can say I can definitely, I'm definitely in my profession. This might be my walk, this might be my job, you know what I'm saying? This might be what I'm supposed to be here for, you know? Now am I satisfied? No, not at the current position that I, that I'm in right now. Trying to be or trying to make bigger and better moves. And I'm currently stuck in this one level and we're ready to go to the next one. That's why I've been feeling uncomfortable lately. But yeah, I'm definitely in my profession. I think, I don't think there's. There's not too many other outside of I would say this. I wish I would have taken. And it's gonna sound crazy, it's gonna sound crazy to say, but seeing where it's at now, I wish I would have took video games seriously now. Hear what I'm saying? Like I've been playing, I've had an Atari, I go. That's how far I go. Back in Atari, right? I was brought up on video games. I was, I'm a video game kid and I Don't think I, I got ncaa. I'm a head coach at Eastern Michigan, okay. We had two winning seasons. They trying to sign me for a five year deal. I'm like, I don't know, I might want to be a little thing and go into that transfer reporter and go see who else want me. But I play video games and my wife accepts me for that. I'm a video game kid. She a video game kid. She like race cars and shit like that. But yeah, man, that's what I grew up. I grew up playing video games. And I wish I would have took it more serious and, and, and seen the profession in it at a younger age. I would have been. And then if I would have got, you know, acquainted or what are, what I say. Familiar with YouTube in the early stages. Imagine, imagine like I, I watch, I'm on Tick Tock watching other grown men play video games every day. And it'd be just random games and they'd be playing all different systems, though it's not just the latest ones, you know, is they going all the way back. They showing Game Boy content like it's, it's, it's a big thing. Video games have always been a part of my heart. So if anything, that's my second profession that I want to be a part of. You know what I'm saying? That's that right there. That right there. Let's go to a great question. Great opening question. 12 count you smoking already. All right, number two, he said, should individuals within marriage have separate bank accounts in addition to joint accounts? Look, look, this is one of those, you do what you do. I feel like whatever y'all feel comfortable with. I think it's dope to have separate accounts, you know what I'm saying? Because your money is your money. Hey, in a successful marriage, y'all do everything together. It's okay to have something not attached to them. Trust me, it's okay. It's okay to do that. You gonna need that. You won't want your little stash and buy shit. Nigga, nothing is more rewarding than buying yourself something and not having to explain it. Have your separate accounts. It's not hiding anything. Just happen. You have. Look, in order for you to continue to be with your soulmate, you gotta know that you gotta have your, your me time. You gotta have that separate. You gotta be able to be by yourself a little bit. In order for you to know how much you love that other person. You got to go ahead, you got to, you know, have something separate, maybe all kind of motherfucking Amazon packages popping up. My God. All kind of random. She say, we need that. Snuck in all kind of. This. Ordered a leaf blower. We got a leaf blower, and we got a. Was it. What's the. The water. I can't even think of it right now. But she would be buying all kind of Tim the Tool Man Taylor dog on a low. It ain't even be on the low because I bring in the packages and I got a ring camera, and I know I ain't ordered nothing I ain't got. I ain't. I look at my email, I ain't got no receipts. I ain't got nothing pending. I ain't got nothing on the way, nothing. I see you UPS, FedEx, post office. Drop that right in front of the door. I got you. But I didn't order that, so you gotta. Yeah. Have your separate account if you need. If need be. Didn't have a joint one. It's just. Hey, do whatever works for you. Look, slept in separate beds. Shout out to Ricky. Slept in separate bed. You gonna need. Hey, dog, when you hear married couples say, she like, you know, she sleep on. She's sleeping on the third floor. I got the second floor. That's a real thing. You gonna want your personal space in your relationship and or marriage. And it starts with that bank account. Okay. Because, you know, man, hey, especially when you order the honey packs, you. You're not trying to let her know. That's why you got to have separate accounts. So you can go ahead and order that chocolate or that honey packs. We know the game. We know the game. So, yes, I'm okay with that. Good. Hey, 12 cow. When we talk about, like, a playoff atmosphere type of questions, this is it. This is. Nigga, this is like the Knicks versus the Heat and the playoff, like, early 2000s type shit, man. All right, question number three. Do you feel comfortable initiating sex? If yes, why? If no, why? All right, so I'm like. I'm like, 50. 50. Okay. Sometimes. Sometimes I could put on my little aggressive side. You know what I'm saying? My takeover. And then there's other times where I want to be wanted. I said what I said. Said what I said, come after me, you know, take advantage of me. Do it, Marcy. Do it. You know what I mean? Sometimes I do. Sometimes she do. Most of the time I do. But I am more, you know, I'm not the. I'm not the aggressor at all. I'm not the aggressive when it comes to that, you know? So it's. It's something about. It's something about when. When. When a woman, when she knows what she wants. You know what I'm saying? And she. Yeah, yeah, they. When. When you. When they got that. That possessive look is. Is going down. Is going down. So I hope that helped. That's a good. That's a. That was just number three. That was just number three. Y'all begin to. Number four. We coming up on the end. We coming up on the end with number four. We got. Excuse me. Do you believe in spanking a child? Spanking is a. Spanging is so 1971. 12 CAL. What type of discipline do you believe in? Timeout, standing in the corner, taking away privileges, et cetera. Okay, we talking about discipline now. 12:12 cow. No, because he got. He got boys and he got one girl and she just happened to be the youngest. See, on my side, you know, we got the 18 year old versus the 9 year old and the 9 year old just happened to be the daughter. And we know how it goes. His ebbs and flows. It's up and down. It's roller coasters. Because you discipline the boys a different way than you discipline the girls. We already know this. They're con artists. That is at its finest. Okay, but they. Your heart, they don't only want that. I can calm you down. They can only one that could. That could diffuse that incredible Hulk. Knock that right out. And you better answer that phone. There's nobody on the other end of that. It's nobody over there, bro. There's nobody over there, but you better act like it is, okay? Sip that tea. So much sugar in that tea. It's nothing in that cup. But you know, there's some tea with some. With more than enough sugar in it because she did it. Okay? Yeah, that's that type. You know what I mean? So discipline is different, you know, But I do think this is what I do. Do we have a talk? We have a discussion. You know what I'm saying? And you okay to talk back until you, you know, watch your tone. You know, I want you to be able to debate in the world if you felt like you was wrong or he was in a right. I need to know, do we breaking down the problems over here. Long division. Breaking it all the way down remainders. So yeah, physically, no. I mean, you know, I started out with little pat pass. Hey, pat, pat, sit down those. But nothing like that. Most of my discipline is intimidation. And you know, yay for all the fathers out there. They know what that is. Everybody got Darth Vader in them. Everybody, everybody. All. All the husbands that got the nine to fives, you know what I'm saying? That's really holding down a household. Working, work. They all got Darth Vader traits. Yeah, yeah. Most of the time it works. The intimidation factor is. Is elite. So do I believe in spanking? Absolutely, if you just done the right way. But it all depends on how you want to discipline your kid, knowing that it does come with a level of discipline, because if you don't, then you're allowing your kid to go out into the world thinking that they could do whatever they want. And then sometimes it can be a rude awakening. So the discipline, that's where the discipline comes in at. I've got plenty of whoopings. Oh, yeah. Crazy. And I remember, I remember them. Help me, nigga. Ouch. So, yeah, I'm not against it, you know, but as long as y'all know the difference between a spanking and a beating, you know, so, yeah, some kids needed that, some kids didn't, you know, but it's just. That's just the thing about life, you know what I'm saying? Just trying to figure it out. And you might be have a situation where a kid does respond off of physical butt whooping, and then some don't respond too good to it. So, you know, it's a toss up. And in closing. Oh, man, this has been a wonderful show. Y'all been beautiful. All y'all out there is beautiful. Shout out to y'all. Look at. Give yourselves a. A round of applause. All y'all beautiful people. Coming up on the last question from my guy, 12 cow. How important is it to you for your. Wait, wait, what did it say? How important is it to you for your partner to share your religious belief? Okay, well, so here we go. Spiritual religion, stuff like that. It's very important. I was once married. I was in a marriage and I was married to a Jehovah's Witness. And that, that, that just didn't. It didn't work. It didn't work. It was, you know, one side is presence in the tree and the other side is, nah, we not doing this, you know. And that played a major factor. Major factor because the beliefs is, you know, a total opposite, you know, very strict, very strict, you know, versus, you know, we living life over here, we outside. So that played a major factor. Me and Marcy was going to church when we was staying in la. We was going to reject this stone. Then we moved, you know, we moved away and we never Found that was always gonna be our home, though. Rejected stone. That would always be home. Church. But, you know, we didn't necessarily find one out there where we were at. But recently we just been like, I think we. Coming up on our third week of going back to church, you know what I'm saying? So shout out. Just keeping it. We just woke up and said, let's just go to church. And then, boom, three weeks later, we are here. So I think it's very important, though, 12 gal. You know how that plays a major part in a lot of people's lives, you know what I'm saying? When it comes to politics and religion that could make or break a relationship all across the board. When we started talking about beliefs and policies and stuff like that, it can get bad. It can be very bad. You know what I mean? So it's always. This is all this type of stuff. You gotta talk about that during the dating phase, you know what I'm saying? Like, maybe even first. Maybe even first date. Just get it out the. Hey, the more honest you are, dog, the less you gotta. You gonna have to deal with because you put it all out there, you know what I'm saying? But that is. Hey, man, that's very important. That's very important. You gotta ask these questions on the first date, you know what I'm saying? Who do you believe in? I put my faith in God bless. Hey, shout out to Pac. But you gotta know, you don't want your. You don't want an uncomfortable household, you know what I'm saying? Where I grew up, I grew up watching Christmas movies and. And rapping and. Or just watching or, you know, just waking up. And, you know, the. The presence was under the tree since like the 22nd or the 23rd, mind you. 23rd December, every year is my birthday. Shout out to big Capricorn, okay? Elite Capricorn. Okay? But, you know, I grew up watching that. And what, like I said, watching the Christmas movies or the Christmas cartoons, Seeing the. The different. The variation, the. The very different colors of presents and like that and that one that you looking. You looking, you know, know, on Christmas around Christmas time is checking those presents. Some of them tear your little tag off, y'all little badass little kids. I used to tear some of the. Some of the gift wrapping paper up and then hide it. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, little snake. Because you looking. You looking to see if you got that super Nintendo. That's what you're looking for, boss. You looking to see if you got that psychogenesis you're looking, you know what I'm saying? Just ah, but then you get into a relationship, you get into a marriage and they don't, they don't celebrate Christmas, they don't celebrate the holidays like that. That's going to be an issue. That's going to cause some friction. You talking about? Yeah, that's very important. That's a good ending. That's a good deep question right there at 12 cow shout out to you. Hey, co produced. He did what he had to do, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, special shout out man. And you know we probably gonna have to run a remix, you know what I'm saying? I ain't done a remix in a cool minute. Yeah, I gotta pop out something man, so I can do a remix to it. But outside of that man, I am good. That's good to go right there. I like that. No, I like that one. That's good. Let me stop.