Se7en layers of conversations with Britt

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Go out to la [00:00:02] Speaker B: Comin from the city where no pity is. Shell. Shell. [00:00:04] Speaker A: Somebody need to do a song for la. [00:00:06] Speaker C: Straight up. [00:00:13] Speaker D: Hello, my name is Elaine and I'll be your tour guide through South Central Los Angeles. [00:00:18] Speaker B: Look, count my dough and smoke up. I'm from California. Where you from? So what? I'm from California. Cal, California. Cal, California. This is Los Angeles. Well, where [00:00:31] Speaker E: work? Hello. Hello. Hi. [00:00:35] Speaker F: Hi. [00:00:36] Speaker E: How are we doing? [00:00:40] Speaker F: I'm all right, [00:00:41] Speaker E: you know, [00:00:42] Speaker F: I guess I can't complain. How you doing? [00:00:44] Speaker E: That is great. That is great. I'm doing fine. We have, we have some things to talk about. I have a few questions to ask you just because. [00:01:00] Speaker F: Okay. [00:01:01] Speaker E: Now this is nothing special, okay? But these are random questions that popped up in my head and I say, you know what? I need to find somebody and I need to ask them these questions. Now are you ready? [00:01:18] Speaker F: Yeah. I think you called the right somebody. [00:01:20] Speaker E: Are you, are you going to be a hundred percent accurate and truthful with these corporations questions? [00:01:28] Speaker F: That's the only way I can be. [00:01:30] Speaker E: Okay, get ready because we have now entered the seven shades of conversation. [00:01:38] Speaker F: Oh, shucky ducky. [00:01:40] Speaker E: Ready for the. The first question? [00:01:43] Speaker F: Yes. [00:01:44] Speaker E: Okay, first question. First question. First question. Number one. If your entire dating history was turned into a TV show, would it be a comedy, horror documentary or a crime series? [00:02:02] Speaker F: Oh, Lord Jesus. My entire dating. [00:02:09] Speaker E: Yes, the entire history. [00:02:12] Speaker F: Lord. I'm gonna go ahead and it's gonna be a mix. [00:02:19] Speaker E: Okay. [00:02:20] Speaker F: Going to be. A crime series documentary. [00:02:29] Speaker E: That's a lot going on. That's a lot going on. It is [00:02:32] Speaker F: a lot going on. It is. I mean, it's one of those things where you can laugh at it now. It wasn't funny then, you know, But I feel like there were some. There's some investigative moments, some figuring people out, and truth moments more than anything. I don't think I had one of those that you, you just laugh about it and I won't call it a complete horror. So. Yeah, I, I think that's what we'll, we'll go with. [00:03:11] Speaker E: Okay. All right. No doubt. If I had to go, I would probably choose like maybe like the office comedy style. Right? [00:03:22] Speaker F: Huh. [00:03:23] Speaker E: And then I'll probably max it out at like four seasons and then it'll just be about like, it'll. It'll range from like middle school to marriage. So. Okay, I'll give you four seasons. Maybe like the first season we'll go, uh. We'll probably do like the whole back and forth thing between middle school, high school, right? Then after that, we got the we got the college years that. I think the college years deserve its own season. So that'd be like season two, [00:03:53] Speaker F: like Saved by the Bell. [00:03:54] Speaker E: Yeah, yeah. And then season three will go into like, I would say my late 20s. Um, and then season four obviously will be the whole, you know, the whole marriage get down. So that's the route I'm going. At first I was going to go, but I'm like, I don't want, I don't want nobody to die. So I'm gonna go, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go rom com a little bit. Rom com a little bit. [00:04:24] Speaker F: Okay. And you went way, way back. [00:04:26] Speaker E: Yeah, yeah. I mean, because it's the whole history. Right? I gotta start. It is the [00:04:30] Speaker F: whole history. I just, I don't know, like in my head it just started like early adulthood. But I think I could still say the same going back. I didn't really have a dating life until maybe like sophomore year of high school, so. But I mean, even then, the dating then is still crime series. [00:04:58] Speaker E: Yeah, I mean like, because like for, for middle school, for me it was, it was nothing. You know, it wasn't serious when I didn't like, you know, crazy. But it's still a part of the history. So I, technically I had, I was in a relationship for like two, three weeks with a girl. [00:05:17] Speaker F: Okay. You [00:05:18] Speaker E: know what I mean? But it wasn't nothing. It wasn't, it wasn't crazy. You know, middle school, Middle school is, is, is, is holding, hugging, buying winter fresh gum and kissing and stuff like that. I said, [00:05:29] Speaker F: passing notes. [00:05:31] Speaker E: Now high school is interesting because I was never in a relationship with someone that went to the same school as me. It was always. They went to another school. So that made it kind of tricky. I would have had a great series. Oh that, that, that season right there, season two would have been crazy. But I think the best season probably would have been the college season, of course. Because [00:05:59] Speaker F: of course [00:05:59] Speaker E: that's when we young, free and wild. You know what I mean? [00:06:02] Speaker F: Right? [00:06:02] Speaker E: Yeah. [00:06:03] Speaker F: Yeah. I think you need to add the, the Law and Order to my, to my shit. [00:06:07] Speaker E: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. Okay, let's get to number two. We're doing great. What fictional TV family would you survive living with for an entire year? One whole year? 365. And, and is a two part question. Which family would have you moving out within 48 hours? [00:06:34] Speaker F: So [00:06:34] Speaker E: it's the family. It's the family that you want to kick it with for a whole year or be a part of. And Then there's that other family where you, like, man, get me the fuck up out of here now. When you gotta call your agent, like, hey, like, that's like when devonte Adams was playing for the Raiders, and he was like, yo, get me the fuck up out of here. That's what he said. They wasn't blocking. [00:07:03] Speaker F: I honestly think that's. That's a tough question, but I know for sure the family I would survive living with for an entire year, the one that I could. I could make it happen for the whole year, would be the Cosby's. [00:07:22] Speaker E: Okay. Okay. [00:07:24] Speaker F: I know a lot of people probably think, like, Cosby is, like, strict, but I don't think they're strict. And I feel like my family, to an extent, was similar to that. I think I could. I think I could maneuver that for a year. You know, they had fun and did family things, but there were structure, but not so much that, you know, you got to just stay to yourself and stay away from everybody. [00:07:53] Speaker E: Right. [00:07:53] Speaker F: I feel like they. They try to make things fun for their. Their kids and their family, and I think I could do that for a year. [00:08:03] Speaker E: Okay. [00:08:05] Speaker F: As far as one that would have me running after, like, a couple days. This is gonna sound crazy, but I think. I think the Banks. I think Fresh Prince of Bel Air. [00:08:25] Speaker E: Oh, that. That. You want to talk about it? You want to talk about a strict household? [00:08:32] Speaker F: I don't [00:08:33] Speaker E: think I can [00:08:33] Speaker F: do it. [00:08:34] Speaker E: But it's money. The money is there, though, you know? I know [00:08:38] Speaker F: the money's there. I know, because I thought about that for a second. The money is there. You could have, but. But it's not like they were handing out money for you to just go blow. You know what I'm saying? [00:08:49] Speaker E: You couldn't tell. What. You call it that. [00:08:53] Speaker F: Who? Hillary. You [00:08:54] Speaker E: couldn't tell Hillary. Her car was different. Her car was, [00:08:58] Speaker F: right? Yeah, [00:08:59] Speaker E: but [00:08:59] Speaker F: she was. She was daddy's girl, you [00:09:01] Speaker E: know, [00:09:01] Speaker F: Everybody else and going to private school and having to know I couldn't do it. [00:09:06] Speaker E: But see, for that. And [00:09:08] Speaker F: remember, like, he didn't even want Ashley to, like, play the drums. Like, she had to play violin. Like, it. No. [00:09:16] Speaker E: Yeah, it got crazy. But I think. I mean, we all know that's what. That's why they brought in Will. You know what I'm saying? Will was the. He was the person to show everybody, hey, it's cool to do this. You know, shoulders down, Uncle Phil. But you'll get the penthouse, though. I mean. I mean, you gonna have your own spot behind the big spot, though. [00:09:41] Speaker F: Yeah. But then Carlton gotta stay with you, too. Well, [00:09:46] Speaker E: no, I think the dynamics gotta change at this point, right? And it depends on [00:09:52] Speaker F: the whole year [00:09:54] Speaker E: you gonna get. Look, you gonna be. You're gonna be good. You're gonna be good at the end of the day, whether you. You gonna. First of all, you're gonna have your own room. I think Will had the best spot in the whole situation because he had. I mean, he had his. He. They. They basically had a luxury clubhouse at the end of the day in the back of the house. You know what I mean? So you get to change the dynamics however you want it. You know, you can. Them niggas can move out, you know what I'm saying? They could. It's not like you can't add on or they going to have to move to the house. And then it depends on how old you are, too, because at some point, you know, three out of the four got to go. [00:10:42] Speaker F: Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I'm thinking about. You gotta. I mean, yes, Will did his own thing, but of course he got, you know, he had to have an earful of whatever Philip was bitching about that day. [00:11:01] Speaker E: Yeah. [00:11:03] Speaker F: And I. I don't want to hear that every damn day if I don't want to wear what you want me to wear. I don't want to hear that every day. [00:11:10] Speaker E: It was. It was. It was very. It was very. Especially in the begin, it took a lot to adjust to, you know what I'm saying? So, [00:11:18] Speaker F: yeah, [00:11:20] Speaker E: so I'm going to. I'm going to actually piggyback off of what you said, and I am also going to go inside the Huxtable house for a whole year. But here's my reason, though. I gotta go with the Huxtables because I get, for one, I get a great father figure. Okay. [00:11:36] Speaker F: Yep. [00:11:38] Speaker E: My mother is. Is her to the. To describe her because she always had, like, a serious look on her face. You know what I mean? But she was a great mother as well. You know, they allowed them kids to be kids with boundaries, you know what I mean? So they did a lot of stupid shit outside the house and inside the house. But here's the major reason why I picked the Huxtables. I get four sisters, right? I got four sisters. I got a. I got an older brother, right? And I also have a pathway to Hillman College. My two oldest sisters, they friends, all fire. That's a fact. That's a fact. They. They kicked it around. Nothing but heat. You know what I'm saying? I'm Assuming I'm around the age of. Well, I'm definitely older than Rudy. Okay, let's get that out the way. You know what I mean? So when it come to Denise and Sandra, between them two fire friends, I gotta be around. And then by the time I get to human, Denise already be there. [00:13:01] Speaker F: Crazy. [00:13:02] Speaker E: So that's why I'm going with the Huxb now. The family. That. And it's gonna hurt me to say this, but the house seems so boring. The neighborhood seems so boring. But once you see the neighborhood, you recognize the house. You recognize the neighbors. The neighbors would get on my. They would get on my nerves, first of all. But it would have to be married with children. It had to be because. Because the house just looks so boring. That's all. That's the main thing. And plus, it wasn't a lot of black people on that show [00:13:42] Speaker F: that that house looks like. Like your granny's friend's house. You know, when your granny would take you places and we got to run some errands. We're going to go and stop by Midge's house. [00:13:55] Speaker E: Yeah. [00:13:56] Speaker F: And. And we. I got to go drop something off to her, like. And then you sitting there in a room and kind of looking around. That's the kind of house they got. [00:14:05] Speaker E: Yeah. It was just super, super boring. And I. I don't even know the dynamics of the relationship between me and Bud and. And Kelly. It's like, I don't. I don't want to kick it with Bud. That's one. And then two. Kelly wasn't the best representation of older sibling at all. Dresses was fire, but, you know, sometimes the lights were off. It was off down upstairs. You know what I mean? Like [00:14:35] Speaker F: Hillary. [00:14:36] Speaker E: Yeah. Both of them, tell you the truth. [00:14:37] Speaker F: Yeah. One [00:14:38] Speaker E: had [00:14:38] Speaker F: money, one didn't. [00:14:40] Speaker E: Yeah. So, you know, but she still. Kelly had fun, though. [00:14:45] Speaker F: Oh, yeah, she did. Well, Hillary kind of did, too. [00:14:48] Speaker E: She had fun. But I'm saying we already know the best fun comes from the money that you don't have. Y' all gotta go out there and just, you know, you gotta live a little bit. And then the famous freeway fight. I got to be a part of that. I ain't gonna even lie to you. I gotta be a part of the freeway fight. But outside of that, no, man. Because the neighbors would get on my nerves. Both of them. [00:15:12] Speaker F: Yeah. [00:15:14] Speaker E: All right. Speaking of sitcoms, though, wouldn't it be crazy if, like, studio audience followed you around? [00:15:24] Speaker F: Oh, God. Just [00:15:25] Speaker E: followed you up. Now, picking. Going back to the whole dating thing, dog, if you had A studio audience following you around, you know, why they talking about your, you know, past dating history? That's crazy. That's crazy. All right, let's get to number three. We're doing great. We're doing so great. Number three, [00:15:47] Speaker F: always. [00:15:50] Speaker E: If you're. We all. We still on sitcoms. By the way, if your life had a laugh track, like a 90s sitcom, what recent moment would have gotten the loudest audience reaction? These are things such as Martin with the Martin episode, stolen CD player with the fake. The fake dog. I think that's top three all time. Obviously the vacation one is top three as far as, like, loud responses, I think maybe not necessarily when he went to the cold, but the quote unquote proposal episode, that got a, like a lot of reaction to it. So what would be, what would be yours? What would be that moment where they'd be like, whoa, that happened. Or if it was, you know, had some comedy to it. Recently, by the way. Recently. You ain't got to go way back [00:16:59] Speaker F: trying to think of a reason. Well, it was like a couple weeks ago. I'm in the classroom with one of my students, well, the student that I work with directly, and I sat my phone down on the table, right? And I thought my screen was locked and it wasn't. [00:17:22] Speaker E: Oh, man. [00:17:24] Speaker F: Yeah. And she, she's. She's a really good kid and all. And a lot of times I, I put my airpod, I wear my hair down. I put my airpod in my ear so I can just hear if like I get a message or whatever. And so I didn't have my airpod in and I had sat my phone. I had just come back in from a break and she, she won't go through stuff, but if something catches her attention, she's like, what's this? And she'll tap it. Well, she tapped my phone and I had opened up an old video from my tick tock that I was reposting on my Instagram. And you've seen it before. It's the one where I'm lip syncing to or like mouthing the words to Alexa, blast some of that gangster from the 90s. Recite every lyric word for word and remind who they with. I caught it halfway through, but the was not quiet because my airpod wasn't in. So when she tapped it, that played loud. And so I'm doing one of those, trying to cover up this because all the other kids in the classroom could hear it. Yeah, [00:18:52] Speaker E: yeah, [00:18:53] Speaker F: Alexa, blast some of that gangster shit. I said, oh my God. [00:18:58] Speaker E: Wild Times. That's wild. And. And I would love to know 10, 15 years from now where that child is at, because I want to know if they remember. [00:19:09] Speaker F: Oh, my God. I'm glad she didn't really catch it. Yeah. Repeating it. Yeah. [00:19:14] Speaker E: Because kids naturally. They naturally are going to repeat it. They taking that to the playground. [00:19:20] Speaker F: Yes. [00:19:21] Speaker E: Yeah. Yeah. All right, I'm gonna go with. Most recently, I'm gonna go Halloween. Halloween night, I dressed up as a Steve Urkel. Right now, I would give it probably a seven and a half, maybe a 7.8 out of 10, because I had. I had most of the things that I needed for the costume. But it was a rush thing because I had just came back from being out of town. And, you know, I had the glasses, but it wasn't the glasses that I really wanted. I did have some suspenders that I had to get from somebody else's costume. I had the jeans, but I didn't have the shirt that I wanted, and I didn't have the shoes that I wanted either. So it wasn't perfect, but it was dope. Every year I try to dress up as a black character from. Whether it's a TV show or a movie. So I'm trying to keep that. I'm trying to keep that rolling. But if I had to find something that was very. Where the crowd will go crazy or the audience will go crazy would actually not be of my doings. It would be my two sons who. One in particular who was talking about his dating life, and the other son was basically hyping them up or ad living, you know, if it wasn't hyping them up, it was ad living or, you know, just adding their two cents. It was a semi office type of situation going on. But one. Let's just say son number one decides he wants to go on a dating rant about how many girls he's dating, the type of girls he's dating. And. And they're dancing. And we have footage. I have footage of them dancing. I even made stickers of them dancing. So that's what I'm gonna go with right there. And it was. The thing was, we had a house full of people because we went trick or treating. So people were invited. Two separate families was. And it was a house full. It turned it. It turned into a semi house party. Liquor was involved, a lot of food. And, you know, we were in the house more than outside because, you know, we did. They. We did go trick or treating for a little bit. They went trick or treating before I got there. Because I was coming back from out of town. And also they had to hurry up and trick or treat because it was raining. So we spent most of that Halloween night inside the house listening to dating stories and women preferences and stuff like that. [00:22:28] Speaker F: Oh, Lord. [00:22:30] Speaker E: Yeah, I know, I know. Okay, so next one, next one. Number four. We're doing so great again. What's the biggest lie what's the biggest lie adults told us growing up that we didn't discover until we became adults? [00:22:56] Speaker F: Oh, my. My grandfather used to tell me lies to. To make me eat my food. I don't know if that's what we talking about. [00:23:05] Speaker E: It's a lot. [00:23:07] Speaker F: A lie is a lie. Because he used to make scrambled eggs with onions. And when I was little I didn't want that. And he used to tell me it'll keep my hair curly, otherwise [00:23:19] Speaker E: my hair will fall. [00:23:20] Speaker F: Because when I was younger I had. When I was really little I had like super curly hair. And yeah, he used to tell me if I don't eat onions, my hair is gonna fall flat. It won't stay curly. [00:23:34] Speaker E: That is a. That and that. And that's a crazy lie right there. [00:23:37] Speaker F: That's a bold faced lie. [00:23:39] Speaker E: That's a one of one lie right there. That is [00:23:42] Speaker F: just because he didn't want to make anything separate for me to eat because I didn't want to eat onions. You better eat this shit. Is what he should have said. [00:23:48] Speaker E: Onions in these eggs. Eat this so your hair can stay curly. That's crazy. All right, all right. Good one, good one. I am going to go with. We got McDonald's at home. [00:24:06] Speaker F: Oh my God. [00:24:10] Speaker E: Let me tell you the number one reason, okay? And this is of the obvious. Because your burger don't taste like they burger, okay? Your fries don't taste like they fries. The sodas might be the same depending on what we get. That Sprite. First of all, you. I'm surprised, people. [00:24:30] Speaker F: Is that Dr. Pepper or Dr. Thunder? [00:24:33] Speaker E: It could be. Now that Sprite is different from McDonald's. That Sprite. [00:24:38] Speaker F: Absolutely. [00:24:39] Speaker E: Can you can. That's an assault. Okay? [00:24:42] Speaker F: That spray got backfire in it. That [00:24:45] Speaker E: right is stronger than any Listerine as you could find, okay? But it's not about the food. That's the obvious. It's the Happy Meals. You motherfucking lie. The burger and the fries. And let me tell you something. Them home burgers and them home fries are phenomenal. Oh my [00:25:08] Speaker F: God. And I'm talking about the fries [00:25:09] Speaker E: that we had to do out the gate. Not. Not the bag. Shit. For all y' all people that's still eating. I am. I'm one of those. But if y' all only know French fries in the bag, then you don't know French fries. You don't know the preparation of going to the market, getting you some good russet potatoes, skinning them, and then cutting them up into, like, steak fries or shoestring, however you did it or wanted to do it, season them and putting them in that grease. [00:25:42] Speaker F: Yep. [00:25:43] Speaker E: Okay. Those are some real fries right there. Let me find out if the Midwest, south, or East Coast. Friday, French fries different. If y' all do that, then we don't need to talk anymore. Okay, cuz, enough of this. But. [00:25:57] Speaker F: And let's also say you ain't got no hamburger buns at home. You gonna make me put that on some white bread. [00:26:03] Speaker E: Yeah, yeah. You want to put it on a regular sandwich bread. You know what I'm saying? [00:26:09] Speaker F: Yeah. McDonald's don't do that. [00:26:11] Speaker E: Yeah, they don't do that. They don't do that. But the other thing. The other thing that y' all don't have at the house, like I said, was the Happy Meals. And I'm talking about these Happy Meals. The Happy Meals with the toys. We talking about the Flintstone. When they came out with the Flintstone glass mugs. [00:26:30] Speaker F: Oh, my. Oh, [00:26:31] Speaker E: my God. Okay. Almost lost my mind. And then the classic. You had to be born in a certain era to know about Mac Tonight. Max. And he had the best commercials. To me, he had the best McDonald commercials of all time. When you see Max tonight, it was a whole vibe. It was something about him and Vanilla Ice that just resemble each other. I don't know what it is. And then the classic McDonald's changeables. Those were the actual meals that transformed into whatever they transformed, you know what I mean? But you wanted to collect them all. And in order to collect them all, nigga, you had to go to McDonald's a lot. [00:27:20] Speaker F: Yeah. [00:27:20] Speaker E: And it was. You wasn't. It wasn't a for sure thing that you was going to get all of them, because you could get the same one and they knew what they was doing. [00:27:29] Speaker F: Yep. Yep. They gonna make your ass keep coming back because you try to get them all. [00:27:33] Speaker E: You're trying to get them all. So no, McDonald's is not at home. [00:27:39] Speaker F: Nope. [00:27:40] Speaker E: All right, all right, here we go. It's time to switch it up. We're at number five. We're coming to the end. Time to switch it up a little bit. Enough of the comedy. [00:27:51] Speaker F: No. [00:27:52] Speaker E: What's an irrational fear? You still have as a grown adult that you're slightly embarrassed to admit. [00:28:01] Speaker F: Oh, Still have as an adult. I got a couple. I feel like one of, I feel like one fear I have. I, I might not like to admit it, but I don't think it's that irrational. Another one I will say is irrational is when you turn that light off downstairs and you've [00:28:29] Speaker E: got to run [00:28:29] Speaker F: upstairs to something chasing you. [00:28:31] Speaker E: Yeah. I should have added a two part question about the ones that you've actually conquered because I have conquered a few of them now. But that is, that's a classic. Every [00:28:41] Speaker F: time. But, but I'd say like 80% I do that. If I'm distracted, I might not do that. But if I'm more so focused on, hey, I'm turning off this light and I gotta get back upstairs. Yeah. [00:29:01] Speaker E: The amount of times I ran upstairs, I ran to my room in general, when I cut the lights off as a kid, oh my God, you thought I was a track star. It's all mental. It's all mental because it's like you think that boogeyman. First of all, the boogeyman. Well, it was whatever you thought he or she was in your head at the time. [00:29:25] Speaker F: Yeah. [00:29:25] Speaker E: And whatever footsteps you can curate in your head. And you got to get away sometimes. I mean, sometimes we played around and, and, and you know, we thought it was fine, but for the most part, no. Was scared. [00:29:41] Speaker F: Well, and I live by myself. I mean, I got, you know, my son. But the days or the times are. He's not here. Oh, hell no. I'm running. [00:29:52] Speaker E: Gotta run. I'm [00:29:56] Speaker F: not gonna be the one dying. I'm not gonna be the last one. [00:30:00] Speaker E: All right. It's still spiders, but it's not, it's daddy Long legs. I have to say that. You know, I just can't say spiders because you could throw a tarantula in there that could do damage. Black widows can do damage. And all these other foreign ass spiders. There was one in Jamaica that I seen and that mother, that motherfucker was, it was some colors, it was damn near almost a Jamaican flag. And I remember walking through that water and it was to the side, it was to the side. It was in the big ass spider web. To the side, to the right, right. A little bit up, a little bit up. And the tourist guy seen me see the spider and before I could properly react to it, he looked at me and he said, no. He said no. He said, because if you freak out, then they gonna freak out and somebody gonna get hurt. So I Had to be quiet. I had to be quiet. And that spider was so God damn big. The legs on that was like. It was like when Spider man got his suit from Iron Man. That's how that spider looks. That was shiny. I was like, oh, no. That looked at me like, shut up. Don't, don't, don't you do it. [00:31:33] Speaker F: Don't say a word. [00:31:35] Speaker E: So, yes, Daddy Long Legs for me. Because Daddy Long Legs can't. They could barely break. They can't even break skin. You know what I mean? But they just. They've been bothering me my whole life. My whole entire life. I've gotten better at killing them. But the kid in me still comes out sometimes when I attempt to kill one. And the slipper don't. They are so smart. The way they position themselves in the corner, it's like you can't get a full grip. [00:32:10] Speaker F: You can't get up in that corner. [00:32:13] Speaker E: And then when that fall to the floor and start scattering, it's like. Yeah. [00:32:18] Speaker F: And then you're like, wait, where the fuck did he go? [00:32:20] Speaker E: Yeah, I freak out. I freak out. I freak out. The other one is, I still don't. I. I don't play around with Candyman and I never will. I don't know. I don't care how people feel about it, but I will never go. I will never say his name, whatever. I don't know if it's five times, three times or five times or whatever, but I'm. [00:32:42] Speaker F: I can't remember who does what. But isn't it in the mirror or something? Or is that. [00:32:47] Speaker E: That is Bloody Mary. [00:32:49] Speaker F: Bloody Mary. Okay, [00:32:50] Speaker E: Bloody Mary. But Kenny, it. God damn it. Him. He also has something to do with the. They, they. Because in, in the movie, they do it in the, in the mirror too. But [00:33:03] Speaker F: you know, I don't. With none of that. Yeah, [00:33:05] Speaker E: that belongs, that belongs to, that belongs to Bloody Mary. But Candyman is. You know, because [00:33:11] Speaker F: I feel like I've seen a clip or something where he's in a mirror or some. [00:33:14] Speaker E: Yeah, that was in, that was in the first one. Look, [00:33:18] Speaker F: you know, I don't watch none of that, so. [00:33:21] Speaker E: No, I get it. I get it. For [00:33:24] Speaker F: that reason. For that reason, because don't let me be home alone and I gotta walk past the mirror. Nope. [00:33:33] Speaker E: Okay. All right, all right, all right. Now we done exposing your fears. Now I want to know how you deal with other people. [00:33:44] Speaker F: Yeah. Because [00:33:44] Speaker E: everybody, look, everybody claims that, that, that, that, that they want honesty until somebody tells them something they don't want to hear. Right? [00:33:53] Speaker F: That's true. [00:33:54] Speaker E: All right. All right, let's get to the next question. Is being brutally honest a positive personality trait or is it. Or is it sometimes just an excuse to do or to be disrespectful? [00:34:11] Speaker F: So here's my thing with this brutally honest. I feel that when people use brutally honest, it's an excuse to be an. Because you can be honest. And I'm not saying you got a sugar coat shade, because you can be honest. Somebody's not going to want to hear what you saying and then they're going to go ahead and automatically say like now you're a. Because basically you're just saying something I don't want to hear. [00:34:40] Speaker E: Yeah, [00:34:40] Speaker F: but if you go about it where you're saying in a tone and using language that you're obviously being very insensitive and just like saying to be an. That's being, to me, brutally honest. But if you just tell them the truth, like for example, Baylor, you. We've had discussions. You've, you know, sent me 45 minute voice messages on some. Some truth. I didn't think you were being brutally honest. You were being honest, but I don't think you're being brutally honest about the. That you wanted to say. And it might not have been an easy pill to swallow, but that's be. I think that has to also come with somebody who can be receptive to honesty. Not everybody can because not everybody wants to. Not everybody can take accountability or whatever it is that, you know, the truth is being said about. [00:35:47] Speaker E: Right, right. [00:35:49] Speaker F: I feel like the brutally honest is purposely to be an. [00:35:54] Speaker E: Yeah. If you gotta say brutally honest, then that means you want to be brutal to begin with. [00:36:00] Speaker F: Yeah. [00:36:01] Speaker E: Right. So it's not about [00:36:02] Speaker F: brutal. [00:36:03] Speaker E: It's not about being honest. You should be honest all the time. I think. Yeah. I think it's how you say it. Number one, it's when you say it and it's. And why did you say it? You know? [00:36:18] Speaker F: Yeah. [00:36:19] Speaker E: You know, sometimes you don't have to be honest [00:36:22] Speaker F: in [00:36:22] Speaker E: that moment. You know, sometimes it doesn't call for honesty. Sometimes. Sometimes it just calls for you to just listen. [00:36:32] Speaker F: Yeah. [00:36:32] Speaker E: You know what I mean? Yeah. It's one of those things where. And honestly. Look, I think a lot of people can't handle just any type of honesty all the time. [00:36:46] Speaker F: You can't handle the truth. [00:36:48] Speaker E: You can't handle the truth. Cause like, and what I mean by that is some people can't handle the truth without an explanation behind it. Something as simple as, hey, Baylor, I'm starting to move this weekend, do you want to help me move? If I just say no, If I just say no and that's it, they gonna take that the wrong way. [00:37:13] Speaker F: Yeah, [00:37:13] Speaker E: it's a natural. It's a human reaction for you to just feel some type of way. If I just say no with nothing behind that. [00:37:22] Speaker F: Right. [00:37:23] Speaker E: You know what I mean? No. I'm sick or I work at this time or I'm busy, I got something to do, I'm hurt, whatever the case may be. I didn't say anything. I just said no. [00:37:35] Speaker F: And. And to piggyback off that you could, especially as adults and adults who recognize certain things. You could have had a long ass week. And you know what? I'm not in the space to even want to help somebody. Like I want to sit my ass down and [00:37:53] Speaker E: smoke crack and that's all. If that's. If that's what I want to do this weekend, that's what I want to do. [00:38:00] Speaker F: Right. But people will take that. That's your truth. And you're not being an. But you're exploit. Like that's your self care. But some people will take that as you saying, nah, you, I don't wanna, I don't want to help you when. No, like I gotta look after myself. I had a long week, you know, dodging bullets and shit. I need to sit my ass down somewhere. [00:38:26] Speaker E: Yeah. And also I think you should be on the other people too who are asking for something or something like, like for example, when I asked you to do the show, I said if you are able to do it, that's cool. If not, then I'm going to create a show that is going to make sense for a solo show, you know. So I was like it's not a big deal. But I also remembered, hey, we was. We're supposed. I asked her to do a show this week. The show that I really want to do is not really prepared. So now I need to figure out another show to do. And let's see if she can also do this time slot. If she can't do the time slot, then I have to figure out a whole nother show. But you know, sometimes it's on a person to, you know, be respectful. [00:39:20] Speaker F: Yeah. [00:39:20] Speaker E: When they asking for, you know and y' all know, nine times out of ten ain't trying to help you move. Unless. [00:39:27] Speaker F: Yeah, [00:39:27] Speaker E: you're like if. Unless you got all your packed up though. Like [00:39:31] Speaker F: right? [00:39:31] Speaker E: Here's the thing, I'll help you move. I don't want to help you pack though. [00:39:36] Speaker F: No, that especially because I'M I'm one of those people, I want my packed a certain way. And I'll be sitting there going like, do you want this with it? Like, I want to know where my shit is going to be. Yeah. That's the box with this and this. I don't want somebody doing all that. Yeah. And I don't want to do that for somebody either. [00:39:57] Speaker E: Yeah. As a person that does not want to move, it is very important that these boxes are labeled. Okay. Or. [00:40:04] Speaker F: Well, if you want me to help you pack, I'm not helping you move the shit. It's one or the other [00:40:08] Speaker E: I'm not doing. Yeah. It's different. Give me a job. [00:40:13] Speaker F: Yeah, I [00:40:14] Speaker E: need a job title. Because I don't want to do [00:40:16] Speaker F: a packing team. A moving team. [00:40:18] Speaker E: Exactly, exactly. Exactly. Because if I'm going, look, I'm not going to do everything, you know, And I. And I'm. And I'm cool with unloading, but. Or loading. But you know what? I take that back. I'm cool with loading because I like playing Tetris. I know how to push it in the truck. [00:40:36] Speaker F: Yeah. [00:40:36] Speaker E: But unloading that to me might be a semi problem if you're a person that I don't like. The quarterback of the moving situation. That goes there, that goes there, that goes there. No, I'm about to put all this unless I'm [00:40:53] Speaker F: dropping it all off in one room and you figure this out. [00:40:56] Speaker E: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Especially because if it's not labeled, like I said, I'm not. And then don't just put bedroom when you got five bedrooms because your mama lingerie is gonna end up in one of the kids rooms around with me. Okay. Yeah. This is bedroom. Put master bedroom. We can't call it master bedroom no more, huh? [00:41:19] Speaker F: I don't think so. [00:41:20] Speaker E: Yeah. That's crazy that we gotta change all this. We're doing so great. We have one last question. We have the seventh question. Are you ready? [00:41:31] Speaker F: Final countdown. Yes, I'm ready. [00:41:35] Speaker E: Important question. I need you to. I need you to thought on this one. Okay. [00:41:39] Speaker F: Okay. [00:41:40] Speaker E: Every thought on this one. What's the difference between who you think you are and who people actually experience? [00:41:54] Speaker F: Oh, [00:41:55] Speaker E: yeah. [00:42:00] Speaker F: Damn. [00:42:01] Speaker E: Yeah. Because you got a lot of people out here thinking they are who they. Who they. Who they think they are. And they not really that. They not really that. But who do you think you are? The people. [00:42:16] Speaker F: I don't know. I mean, my own world, honestly. [00:42:24] Speaker E: Do you think. Do you think you. Do you think you give people a different experience? [00:42:31] Speaker F: Not really [00:42:33] Speaker E: who you think you Are [00:42:37] Speaker F: I. I feel like I'm just me all the time, but I. I feel like. I feel like I'm protect. Like, to myself. I'm a protective person as far as. Like, I. I do things a certain way to protect myself, but maybe other people view it as me being guarded. Like. Like, you. You might feel like you close to me, but you're really not that close to me. Like, there's this meme I always send to your wife when it pops up in my memories, but it's like a. It says something about when you think, you know, a Virgo, but it's like an orange with, like, five more peels underneath. Or it's a. It's a door with, like 50 million locks on the other side. It's like, I. I'll let you know. Some. You might think, like, we're close. We're really not close like that. So I feel like people think that maybe I'm protective of stuff, but I. You know, I let you in and all that, but I. I feel like. Or actually, no, that's how I feel, but I feel like people think I'm super guarded instead, if that makes sense. [00:44:03] Speaker E: Yeah. Yeah. [00:44:04] Speaker F: Okay. [00:44:08] Speaker E: I throw people off all the time. Mainly co workers. You know what I mean? Because you could tell. You could tell how much. I ain't gonna necessarily say the word like, but I'm cool with by how much I talk to them and the way I talk to them. So there's coworkers I could talk to, like I'm talking to one of the homies, very small. And then there's co workers that I very formal with. It's just. Yeah. You know what I mean now? [00:44:44] Speaker F: Yeah. [00:44:45] Speaker E: That doesn't mean that I'm changing. It's just. This is just different, I want to say. Not necessarily different. It's just another version, you know, And. But for the most part, I know. I present who I know who I am at the end of the day, I think people might get me misunderstood from time to time because I could. I can approach a situation with a certain demeanor and. Or a certain. Or a straight face or something like that, and they might think I'm serious, but outside of that, I don't give a. [00:45:34] Speaker F: I don't give a. I don't give a. [00:45:36] Speaker E: Yeah, no, but. Yeah, no, I think. I think at the end of the day, my experience with people. It's cool. For the most part. It's cool. They cool. I got a bonus question before we get up out of here. [00:45:57] Speaker F: Oh, Lord. Always a zinger with you [00:46:01] Speaker E: okay? You ready? [00:46:03] Speaker F: Yes. [00:46:05] Speaker E: Would you want to see how somebody experienced your best moment or your worst moment? [00:46:13] Speaker F: Is this somebody? Any somebody? [00:46:15] Speaker E: It could be anybody. It could be anybody. I think it might matter more. I think it might matter more depending on the relationship. [00:46:26] Speaker F: Yeah. But I feel like my worst moment because I feel like that's not just a relationship thing. I think even in friendships and just people, you know, like, you need to know how somebody's gonna move in their worst moment. Like if I'm gonna be at my lowest or whatever the situation is, you know, and it's a fucked up situation, like how I handle that and the people around me and, you know, I'm not. We all go through shit and might just need to, like, be to ourselves and not talk to anybody. I'm not talk like, oh, I, I, I don't, I stopped talking to you. But, like, if I'm going through some and I'm lashing out and I'm treating the people like around me, or I'm moving real, like grimy and all that. Yeah, no, like, which I don't do. I'm just saying. Let me rephrase that. If somebody is doing that, like, I want to know how you move that way. Because when you do have a low moment, or might not be the lowest of the low, but when you start dipping down in that area, if you about to be foul and move crazy around me and it puts me at risk of something, I don't, I don't need that around me. Like. And it's the same in relationships. Like, the, the true test is seeing somebody and a low moment, how they handle a bad situation. So I, and if I'm at my best, I don't want you just like, liking me for that or wanting to experience me just for that best moment. Because when that best moment is gone, then what happens with you? [00:48:14] Speaker E: Yeah. [00:48:15] Speaker F: So. Yeah, yeah. No, give me that. See me at my worst. [00:48:20] Speaker E: Okay. I think, I think I'm going to go with the best moment. I think I'm going to go with the best moment because, [00:48:31] Speaker F: okay, [00:48:32] Speaker E: if they are able to experience the same way I experience it and have that same type of feeling, a lot of stuff that I, you know, a lot of my best moments are inspiring. So, [00:48:48] Speaker F: okay, [00:48:49] Speaker E: whether it's going on a vacation and doing certain things during a vacation or even one of my future shows that I'm gonna talk about, where the blue hour is involved in my, in my quiet room. Right. If you can actually understand and feel the vibes that I'm creating during that moment or that joy or that core memory, then I would believe that it'll change your whole mindset towards certain things. Like me going on certain vacations in certain places opened up my mind to wanting to go to different places more. You know what I mean? To create core memories. They don't have to be the same thing, but if it can produce the same feeling or even better, then I won't want somebody to experience that. So they'll want more, too. [00:49:52] Speaker F: Okay, I see where you're going with that. [00:49:56] Speaker E: Yeah, I got deep right there. As to canali, [00:49:59] Speaker F: that's some acid type shit. Some mushroom type shape. [00:50:02] Speaker E: Yes, it is. Yes, it is. And we are feeling great. Thank you for answering in these seven plus one questions. [00:50:11] Speaker F: Anytime, anytime. [00:50:12] Speaker E: The next time is going to be a little bit more crazier. Okay. [00:50:17] Speaker F: Okay. I'm taking a trip [00:50:19] Speaker E: now. What we're going to do here is our exit. We want to let them know where they can find you, what your show is called, the latest episode that you want to promote [00:50:34] Speaker F: in [00:50:34] Speaker E: a future episode that you're going to do. Tell them. [00:50:39] Speaker F: Okay. All right. Well, I will say this week and last week was a little unscheduled break. Last week, like I had, if you follow me, you've seen I worked 20 days straight and so I was exhausted. I couldn't do nothing. And as you hear now I'm getting over a cold or whatever the hell this is. So I just took some rest, which shout out to 12 Kyle has convinced me it's all right to do. The listeners will still be there because I always try to push out a show, so. [00:51:18] Speaker E: Right. [00:51:20] Speaker F: Yeah. So the show is I could talk about this all day. And my latest episode, I believe that was like October 22nd or 23rd was called loose Rap and I actually like that one. It was me and a couple of my homegirls. We voice message throughout the day almost every single day. And we were talking about dating stuff. Now I am not actively dating. Have not for a very long time, but my friends are in the world and we've talked about things that we experience in the dating world or have experienced and we're fed up with we wish guys would do so There were certain things they said in their voice messages with their permission. I used clips and I kind of, you know, put them all together and added my 2 cents. So that one was called Loose Rap and I like that one. So there's that. You can get that wherever you listen to your podcast and the Instagram is I could talk about this all Day podcast. [00:52:38] Speaker E: Great. My latest episode was about. What was my latest episode about? Oh, the benefits don't die. It is about if you lose a. A loved one, family or friend, but you get to pick three things that they did for you or did around you that. That still happens often to remind you of them. So check that episode out and eventually one day I'll open back up the gym. It's so much sports stuff going along, going on right now. Language is doing great. Another 50 piece on Portland. Oh, my God, [00:53:25] Speaker F: I was watching that one. [00:53:27] Speaker E: Yeah, that was a good game. Good game. [00:53:30] Speaker F: Because especially when I started watching it, they were behind. [00:53:34] Speaker E: Yeah, they start off slow, and Portland, they just don't matter which decade it is. Just Portland just gives us problems. They just. [00:53:43] Speaker F: Yeah, [00:53:44] Speaker E: so they beat us the first time around. We beat him the second time around. We got two more. Two more games with them for the rest of the season. But, yeah, good sports going on. UCLA's still undefeated as of. As of right now. We play Minnesota coming up this weekend. But thank you, Brits, for coming through, and that was a great episode. [00:54:06] Speaker F: Thank you for having me. [00:54:08] Speaker E: Off the record, though. What's the. What's your favorite Luther song? What's. What's Luther's favorite best song? What's Luther's best song? I'm gonna say. I'd rather. [00:54:17] Speaker F: Oh, that look. One. I. I won't say this is my favorite favorite, but one that always gets me moving. And you can't like if you hear it and you just sit still. I. I don't know what's wrong with you, but never too much. You can't like. [00:54:35] Speaker E: Never too much. Yeah, I think. I think [00:54:37] Speaker F: that's a given. [00:54:40] Speaker E: That's cocaine music, too. [00:54:44] Speaker F: Could you imagine snorting cocaine? Never too much. [00:54:50] Speaker E: It better be. It better be enough. [00:54:54] Speaker F: Yeah, it better. I think. I don't know because. Oh, man, look, I recently watched House Party. Bad Boy's always been a favorite, but I think I'm gonna go with don't. You know that it. Yeah. [00:55:14] Speaker E: Okay. That [00:55:16] Speaker F: whole album. I love that album. That's a good one. [00:55:19] Speaker E: That's a good one. Shout out. Shout out. Shout out. Okay, people, until next time. [00:55:26] Speaker F: Peace.