With the EXtras Ft. Mr. Everythang Culture

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Go out to la. [00:00:02] Speaker B: Comin from the city where no pity is. Shell. [00:00:04] Speaker C: Shell. [00:00:04] Speaker A: Somebody need to do a song for la. [00:00:06] Speaker D: Straight up. [00:00:13] Speaker A: Hello, my name is Elaine and I'll [00:00:16] Speaker C: be your tour guide through South Central Los Angeles. [00:00:18] Speaker A: Look, count my dough and smoke up. [00:00:20] Speaker D: I'm from California. [00:00:22] Speaker B: Where you from? [00:00:23] Speaker A: So what? [00:00:24] Speaker D: I'm from California. California. [00:00:26] Speaker A: California. [00:00:27] Speaker D: California. [00:00:29] Speaker A: This is Los Angeles. [00:00:30] Speaker D: Well, where we going? West. [00:00:33] Speaker A: I said I'm wak. Listen, I was about to fall asleep. I was gonna say, man, my body ain't making it. So I came over here to get some juice and chop it up. And it worked out. It worked out. Yeah. I mean, Doc said, what's up, man? [00:00:46] Speaker B: Hey, it's all about the money. It's all about the money. [00:00:50] Speaker A: Every day. [00:00:51] Speaker B: It's all about the money. [00:00:52] Speaker A: I'm work on that logo a little bit more, man. I was like, I like it. I was gonna replace all. Like the other, like the background. Not the background, but all the other signs. Like that Bud Light with like stands pod and they pie. Now that. I was gonna hook it up. I was gonna hook it up. [00:01:09] Speaker B: Yeah, no, I. You came up with that. [00:01:12] Speaker A: Hey too. [00:01:12] Speaker B: That was. [00:01:13] Speaker C: Who? [00:01:14] Speaker A: Kitty. Oh, they can hear you, by the way. [00:01:17] Speaker B: Once again, it's all beautiful people. I love those beautiful people. I love them. [00:01:21] Speaker A: But, you know, I'll be describing people in a certain way and it's all respect, due respect. But, you know, I'm like, I, you know, you know me. Okay. [00:01:30] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, it's all love. Now, what we here for is to discuss our fellow comrades. That's in our group chat. [00:01:39] Speaker A: Hold on, is your mic on? Turn your mic up a little bit. [00:01:41] Speaker B: I gotta turn it up. Let me see. That might be. Oh, wait, hold on, hold on, hold on. What about that? Is that better? [00:01:52] Speaker A: I'm gonna turn a little bit more. Cuz when I was chopping up with Shan, I let her know. Okay, they can hear you. Well, I was hearing Gigi like here, and I was hearing Shan like here, and that's very unusual. [00:02:02] Speaker B: Okay, what about now? [00:02:03] Speaker A: Perfect, perfect, perfect. Okay, okay, we can. [00:02:06] Speaker B: You will now I got some clips though, so hold on. [00:02:10] Speaker A: Let me hit record on here too. Okay, go ahead and get started. [00:02:13] Speaker B: Okay. All right. [00:02:15] Speaker A: What we. What are we tithing? This. [00:02:18] Speaker B: I titled it with the extras emphasis on the X. [00:02:25] Speaker A: I'm putting three. [00:02:26] Speaker B: Okay. Okay. You putting three X's. [00:02:30] Speaker A: Should we. [00:02:31] Speaker B: That's crazy. [00:02:32] Speaker A: That's a. [00:02:34] Speaker B: That's. Wow. [00:02:36] Speaker A: I'm gonna throw. I'm gonna throw four in there just to keep it pg. [00:02:38] Speaker B: Okay, there we go. Gotta Keep it safe. Gotta keep it safe. Especially in this. In. In today's world, you got to be safe. You got to be. You got to be careful. But I do have some clips that I just want to go through now. I didn't clip up the whole episode because the whole episode is about an hour and maybe about close to, like, 30 minutes long. Right? [00:03:01] Speaker A: Yeah, very. It was definitely. [00:03:04] Speaker B: So everybody else that want to hear what they was talking about throughout the rest of the episode, y' all gotta go check. [00:03:11] Speaker A: They. [00:03:12] Speaker B: You got. You gotta go check their podcast out. Right? [00:03:16] Speaker A: Commonly get off. [00:03:17] Speaker B: Yeah. So again, we just. We. We just. We. We messing around with them, you know, I don't necessarily disagree with a lot of stuff, but I do find certain things interesting that they both said during the episode. And it gets crazier and crazier as the episode goes on. One of the clips has Shan with a laugh that is just wild. It's a wild laugh, really. [00:03:48] Speaker A: Like a cackle. That's what I would call it, man. It was. [00:03:51] Speaker B: It was. It was a laugh that. That'll make you want to laugh. It was a good, healthy laugh, by the way. So just to let y' all know what we about to go through, we just about to analyze what these particular women has gone through in their dating and relate in past relationships. You know what I mean? [00:04:17] Speaker A: Basically, they're talking about, what did they leave with their exes. [00:04:21] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [00:04:22] Speaker A: So exposed me about growth. [00:04:27] Speaker B: Now, the only reason why I decided to. I wouldn't necessarily call this a remix. This is just something that I'm. I just wanted to point out, you know, because I noticed and shout out. To shout out to the homegirl Brit. You know, I could talk about this all day. You know, she had a. Her. Her latest episode on her podcast, she had a guest, and they were also speaking about men. But it was also to the. The episode was more so to help men out, you know, it was to help them out, to look for red flags and stuff like that. But I just noticed throughout the episode, a little bit of male bashing. [00:05:15] Speaker A: You don't say. [00:05:16] Speaker B: Yeah, I noticed when these particular topics is brought up, it doesn't matter what the topic is. The topic could just be about love, just pure love, you know, dog food. And somewhere in that episode, it's gonna be some male bashing. And. [00:05:40] Speaker D: And. [00:05:40] Speaker B: And I'm okay. Cause that's their personal. That's what they went through. Personally. I can't really criticize what they went through personally. You know, I can, but. And we will. And we will you know what I mean? Because sometimes I just feel like the brothers just get a. You know, they. They just get picked on a little bit. Some of them deserve to be put out there. Some of them deserve to be talked about, et cetera, all that other good stuff, bad stuff. But then there's times where it's like, y' all ain't even got to bring us. Y' all ain't even got to bring the man up, you know? Sometimes. Sometimes y' all are healing, and y' all just need to go heal without talking about what they did. Cause y' all did some stuff, too. [00:06:30] Speaker A: And y' all thieves, big time. See, see, see, See? You know, and. And I'll be clear for everybody that, you know Drake with everything. Culture. We love these ladies. We love the ladies. Okay? Utmost respect. Okay? And as I was sharing earlier with my peoples, this is. We have in a group chat. Pie fan. We've been. We've been going with five, five, six years long, this group chat. [00:06:57] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:06:58] Speaker A: Amazing thing. Okay. [00:07:00] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:07:00] Speaker A: And we've had this conversation with these ladies before, too. These are like our sisters. Yeah. All right. And if you ever been in a rel. A friendship with a male and the female, and you see the you. We. We should ebb and flow off one another. We should educate one another. When we see one of us going the wrong direction, we should pull our coattail, you know? And that's what this is. [00:07:26] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:07:26] Speaker A: Was like, we heard some things. I'm. Like, Shan actually said in the group. I called Shan. I got on the phone, like, hey, man, what's this? [00:07:34] Speaker B: Yeah, I called her, too. I called her, too, and I just told her, yeah, we. [00:07:39] Speaker A: We. [00:07:40] Speaker B: I got something to say, you know, like, three seconds said, the south got something to say. I'm from the west, but I'm from Southern California, so technically Southern California got something to say. You know what I mean? Stop. [00:07:54] Speaker A: I'm Third coast, baby. [00:07:55] Speaker B: Stop picking on us. You know what I mean? Like, not all of us, and even the ones that you do pick on, we don't even know where they at. We don't know where they at. [00:08:08] Speaker C: Leave them alone. [00:08:10] Speaker B: Stop digging up those zombies. Leave them alone. Okay? Cause y' all keep putting the same energy in the atmosphere. Y' all keep popping these red balloons. Leave these balloons alone. [00:08:26] Speaker A: See, I don't know how quick I'm gonna put mine out there. That's all I can say. I. We. We got things to say. And we talk to our people. And this is no shot. If it was a hit dog, go Holla. Okay. And if you holler, it's okay. It'll be okay. We hear it out of love once again. Hopefully this helps you. [00:08:47] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:08:47] Speaker A: Okay. [00:08:48] Speaker B: Yeah. Now, look, I do want to bring up. I do want to bring up one of the. One of the first clips. It's actually an introduction. Let me know if you can hear this first of all. So before we even get started. [00:09:04] Speaker C: Okay. Things we left with an X. [00:09:08] Speaker B: You can't hear it. [00:09:09] Speaker C: Interesting. We're talking X talk, but not in the way you think. Okay. What have you left with an ex? It can be feelings. It could be thoughts. It could be your mindset has changed. It could be maybe what you thought you wanted in a partner you no longer want anymore because you had that experience and he graduated from that. Now, it could be a product. It could be. I don't know. [00:09:45] Speaker B: Did you hear. Did you. Did you hear that? I just went blank. Can you hear me? No. Yeah, because you just. You sound silent. I mean, silent. We can't hear. Oh, I don't know. Please stay in the studio until your recording is done. All right. Okay. Can you hear me now? I get back to it. [00:10:29] Speaker A: Like a prom. [00:10:32] Speaker B: What about now? I don't know. What. Maybe I should leave and come back in. [00:10:46] Speaker A: Let me see. Let me see. [00:11:01] Speaker B: We good? Then we good. I think we good. Can you hear me? [00:11:05] Speaker A: Yeah, I hear you. Good. [00:11:07] Speaker B: Okay. [00:11:08] Speaker A: Okay. It's not. No. How about this? I'm gonna try this. I'm gonna try to look at the timestamp. She tell me the times. I'm gonna pull them up on YouTube. [00:11:17] Speaker B: Okay. [00:11:19] Speaker A: And I'm gonna pull another screen, and we'll just play from there because we'll get. We will get this together. Tell you what, let's do it. [00:11:28] Speaker B: Let me cut you down a little bit. [00:11:31] Speaker A: Okay? Yeah, I'll put myself down a little. Well, yeah, coming down. Baby. When I tell you. When I. When I. Man, I'll be. I'll be rubbing my feet so hard when I get into bed. All right, let's train like this. Put this right there. Boom. Tomorrow's Tuesday. Y' all make somebody day better tomorrow. [00:12:00] Speaker B: Tomorrow is Tuesday. We getting through the week. We headed towards April. [00:12:08] Speaker A: Dang. They said this video may not be. This video may be inappropriate for some users. I gotta click. I understand and wish to proceed. All right. What second mark you want to me to go to right now? [00:12:22] Speaker B: The first one. [00:12:24] Speaker A: Hold on. But you gotta tell me the time from your side. Are you on your phone right now? [00:12:28] Speaker B: No. Well, yeah, as far as the video, I Mean, I'm on the app through the. I'm on stream yard. [00:12:34] Speaker D: Through the. [00:12:35] Speaker B: Through the phone. [00:12:36] Speaker A: Okay. Because that's on. I gotta look at it. It's not. It's not pulling up yet. On the. It's not pulling up. It's not opening yet. That's the thing. [00:12:47] Speaker B: The videos. [00:12:48] Speaker A: Yeah, the clips you sent me. Oh, okay. I see one for 10:56. That's the first one I see. If I go to 1056. [00:12:59] Speaker B: 1056. Most of them should be under a minute. [00:13:10] Speaker A: It's within the first minute. [00:13:13] Speaker B: All. All the videos is under a minute. It's a few of them. [00:13:18] Speaker A: No, I'm talking about when. I'm saying that you have the time when I'm looking at. Okay, when did they start talking? [00:13:24] Speaker B: Immediately. As soon as you click on. [00:13:33] Speaker A: I'll make sure they see this. I'm gonna add it right here. Y' all see the behind the scenes stuff right now? Y'. All. Y' all see how we work this out? [00:13:42] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:13:42] Speaker A: I'm gonna put down share screen right here. [00:13:54] Speaker B: Oh, you did the video? You doing the videos? [00:13:57] Speaker A: Yes, sir. Okay. You know, stepped this up on here. You did? [00:14:02] Speaker B: Yeah. No, my clips were screenshots of the podcast through the podcast app. I ain't got no videos. [00:14:10] Speaker A: So you see, so. And that's what I'm trying to say. If you tell me, like, what time is the screenshots, I can go straight to there. So for instance. [00:14:17] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, N. I don't even want to back out. [00:14:21] Speaker C: I don't even want to reorganize them. So this is actually 13 me. I'm gonna say Gigi came up with this idea. Okay. [00:14:33] Speaker B: She threw Gigi under the table. [00:14:34] Speaker C: We left with an ex. [00:14:36] Speaker A: Big time. [00:14:36] Speaker C: This would be interesting. We're talking X talk, but not in the way you think. Okay. What have you left with an ex? It can be feelings. It could be thoughts. It could be your mindset has changed. It could be maybe what you thought you wanted in a partner you no longer want anymore because you have that experience and you graduated from that. Now it could be a product. It could be, I don't know, just like the way you deal with people. I left that over there with them. I don't do that anymore. So Gigi knows nothing of what's on my list, and I know nothing of what's on Gigi's list. [00:15:28] Speaker D: We don't even know how we broke it down because I broke mine down in segment. Like parts. Like, it's. I don't know. She could have made Like, a whole list. [00:15:36] Speaker C: I have 12 things. Okay, you see? [00:15:38] Speaker D: Yeah, See, like. And I broke my 12 things. Like, on, like, I'll give you an example. Things that I took from. Right. And then things that I left. And then there's, like, physical things. There's emotional things. Is it broken down like that? Like, I took some things and I left some things. [00:16:08] Speaker C: Okay. [00:16:09] Speaker D: Is there anything that you took? Did you take anything? [00:16:11] Speaker C: I didn't take anything. [00:16:13] Speaker D: Okay, well, okay, because we don't steal. We just reassign who the owner is. [00:16:19] Speaker C: I kill. [00:16:20] Speaker A: No, I think we could pause it right there. [00:16:23] Speaker B: Yeah, let's pause it right there. So, look, here's the thing. Those. I think way to help you out is if you can still see those clips that I sent to you, they will have the time stamp on them. [00:16:35] Speaker A: And that's. It's not even opening for me. That's the problem. Because. I don't know, because you send to me all at the same time, and it's such a large file. But that's the complicated. That's all trying to do. [00:16:44] Speaker B: Okay. Okay. [00:16:46] Speaker A: So I'm. I'm gonna keep trying to open it, though, but I'm here. We here. [00:16:49] Speaker B: Well, let's start with the. The opener. Have you ever. Before we even get to them, have you ever left something with your ex? [00:16:57] Speaker A: Your exes, man, you know, it's been a long time since I had an ex. You hear me? [00:17:02] Speaker B: Yeah. Hey, obviously, Obviously. [00:17:07] Speaker A: So, you know, of course, you know, you know, whatever happens there, it's free for them to have, you know, blessings to you, my sister. [00:17:17] Speaker B: Now, have you ever kept anything from them? [00:17:21] Speaker A: I. I. When I was younger, I did. When I was younger, I did used to keep stuff, you know, I used to keep little mementos, you know, hanging around my neck like trophies. But, you know, I've grown from that, you know? But the thing is, I think I'm trying to think about something. Lace. Hey, that would have been a collectible, but I'm trying to think of something that I left. Well, no, something I. I may have taken and I killed. You know, I'm gonna bring this. I bring. Since we're talking about. It was a. Do gifts count? Is that taking something? I didn't steal it. [00:18:01] Speaker B: Personally, I don't think gifts. [00:18:02] Speaker A: Well, I'm not. [00:18:04] Speaker B: I'm not sure if gifts count, because a gift is a gift. [00:18:07] Speaker A: Exactly. But that's something that, you know, technically may have taken. Like I. I say. I say it was given to you. [00:18:13] Speaker B: You didn't take it. You received the gift. [00:18:18] Speaker A: Exactly. Exactly. But I received the gift and I held on with a Xbox. But the thing is, she wanted to take it back after we broke up. [00:18:26] Speaker B: Now that's different. [00:18:28] Speaker A: Okay, then that's different. Yeah, that's what I say. [00:18:30] Speaker B: We talking about, we talking about custody battle right now. [00:18:33] Speaker A: Big time, big time, big time. And the thing is, it was a gift. Cool. Cool. You know, she, you know, she kind of, she knew the reason was the reason for the breakup, in my opinion. But she expected me was gonna stay after she did some bs she did. And I like, nah, it's over. And she was like, well, I want the Xbox. I like oh my dead body. Like good luck with that. And you know, it was one of the things where she looked throw it off. And I used to hear from my elders all the time, never take a gift from a woman just like you should. Like they used to never take a gift from a man on the. For the opposite sex. Because once you receive that gift, they gonna think they control you through that gift. [00:19:15] Speaker B: That's like the man in the club that buy, that buys the girl a dream. [00:19:18] Speaker A: Yes. [00:19:18] Speaker B: He think he, he think he supposed to follow her around the whole night. Cuz he didn't spend $21 on this goddamn mimosa. Margarita or Cadillac Margarita. [00:19:32] Speaker A: Yeah, crazy. [00:19:33] Speaker B: Well, I mean, look, understand this people. I didn't have a plethora of exes. No, I was very selective and, and, and, and not necessarily picky. We'll go with that. We'll go with that. I had, you know, I had a, I had a relationship for a week and in middle school, so that don't really count. You know, she took some winter fresh gum from me. We share winter fresh gum, you know, so that wasn't a big deal. Now once I got older and I was out there dating, I was a casual dater. You know, most of my interactions we left on great terms. We had a phenomenal understanding of what this situation was. I happen to lose a lot of basketball shorts, you know, maybe a few hoodies, but mostly, mostly basketball shorts. That's what I lost a lot. I do have a thing about Nike socks, you know, Nike socks. The, the, the standard outfit for a casual interactor was a hoodie basketball shorts and the Nike flip flops with the Nike socks, you know, so I may have given up a couple of hoodies. I may have given up a, a plethora of basketball shoes. There's a lot of, there's a lot of vintage throwback Nike adidas, college theme basketball shorts that's probably thrown away by now. Because, you know, if you. I'm not naming no names. And this is way before, you know, my, my. My 15 years of marriage and my 18 years of being in a committed relationship. If somebody's out there walking around in some Texas Longhorn basketball shorts, you got. [00:21:41] Speaker A: If you got faded. [00:21:42] Speaker B: Yeah, if you got them. If you see some throwback UCLA basketball shorts, you see some black and red and white Jordan shorts. She didn't hoop. She didn't hoop. You know, she wore those afterwards. They was very comfortable. Very comfortable. They mentioned in this episode about wearing boxers. Okay, Shan is. [00:22:06] Speaker A: Oh, hold on. Don't get that. Okay, listen, don't get that because I. I'll figure out how I can get to each clip now. Oh, you got perfect. Perfect. I'm not. I don't know if I'm on that one yet, but we gonna go to the next clip. Let's make sure we. Right here. Right here. Let's see these young ladies. It's great. Women of the word. We go say, let's pull them back in here, see what they're talking about. [00:22:36] Speaker C: I don't do that anymore. [00:22:38] Speaker D: Okay, [00:22:40] Speaker C: last relationship, I made him a Q, say box. But it was like, for him to have. That's a cold for me to hold on to. And I have, like, different. Just like letters and thoughts in there. When he's in different moods or different mindsets that can help him get through it. At the end of that relationship, I told him, you could throw that way in. Now he's like, no, I'm not throwing away my. [00:23:03] Speaker D: You can't tell him to throw it out. That's his choice. That is his choice. [00:23:07] Speaker C: He was like, no, I'm not throwing my box. [00:23:09] Speaker A: I was like, whatever. [00:23:12] Speaker C: If you go into another relationship and they find that box, they throwing it away, you're might as well throw it away. [00:23:20] Speaker D: It depends on a woman, because she can be upset, or she could just help him with the process and he'll just won't be able to find it again and it gets thrown away. I don't really have a firsthand account of that, but that could happen. [00:23:32] Speaker C: Find another woman on this earth as sentimental as me to get in there. [00:23:39] Speaker D: Of course, no, I don't think that she would be like you, but I think that there is a version of a woman not like you, but would see something made from another woman and said, you know what? The argument is moot. I'm here now, so let me help you take these memories, and we're gonna go down memory lane and trash Box [00:23:58] Speaker C: here is the evidence that I've had better. [00:24:00] Speaker D: Yes. And we just. We just know. Yeah. We're gonna let that go. As though. As if I saw. Gotta go. I don't. We don't need it if you die. [00:24:08] Speaker C: If I saw that. [00:24:10] Speaker D: Yeah. No, I would ask. I was like, did she die? [00:24:13] Speaker C: Better be. Yes. [00:24:15] Speaker D: Look, if she died, I'm like, we just gotta let. At any point in time. It's not staying here. It's not staying here. I'm not competing with a dead person. And if I'm not gonna compete with a dead person, I'm definitely not gonna compete with somebody that you might want to get back with. [00:24:29] Speaker B: That. [00:24:29] Speaker D: Gotta go. If you want to get back with her and that happens. She'll create another box. I see it. She's very creative. Maybe she can make me one too. [00:24:42] Speaker B: That's witchcraft right there. [00:24:44] Speaker A: Oh, bam. That's. [00:24:46] Speaker B: Which. Anytime you create something for somebody and you say, you keep this. She said. She said it. Her. Shan said it. She said, I created a box. I put all these things up in there for him. That is a cult. [00:24:59] Speaker A: A even think about that. [00:25:00] Speaker B: That's a cult. My. Get out of it. [00:25:03] Speaker A: Think about that. Hey, G. This was. I agree with Gigi. G was. Gigi was not wrong in this one. Like, I. Listen, I feel you saying Kitty. I. I would say I. The younger me would been like, it's no big deal. I wouldn't care. Whatever. Things that nature. The elder mature me. Yeah, yeah. They gotta go. [00:25:24] Speaker B: They're right. I mean, you don't want to. You don't want any type of. You go through the attic and stuff like that. You doing some spring cleaning, and then you just see this witchcraft box and you open it and it got all kind of. All kind of old Valentine's Day cards in there from 1997. Yeah, that. It gotta go. I. I gotta find the place. It's going down. See. [00:25:48] Speaker A: I used to keep letters. I used to keep letters. I actually, I still. If I go to my. If I go to my house with my auntie house, it probably still a bag of letters and I didn't need to be thrown away. [00:25:58] Speaker B: Oh, you gotta burn it. You gotta burn that. Because I was. I was. I was the letters guy too. That was the main thing that I kept. I didn't. I didn't keep any type of clothing. I kept. I kept letters, though. Not anymore. They've been gone. [00:26:11] Speaker A: Letters of encouragement. Yes, yes, letters of encouragement. [00:26:14] Speaker B: Those letters got burned in the early 2000s. [00:26:17] Speaker A: Listen, listen. Because we got to keep it Gender neutral. Because if I come over a woman's house, if I was, and she got a box of keepsakes from her old. Nah, hell no. Yeah, you know, I agree with Gigi. [00:26:31] Speaker B: You gotta get. You gotta get rid of that stuff. And it seemed like it's gonna be right next to the anal beads. [00:26:36] Speaker A: Oh, you know, hey, you know, freaky people. But that. That's how I. Hold on, let me. I'm trying to pull up the other one, make sure I can read it right. Okay. Yeah, we're at the 18. Okay, let's go a little bit further in, y'. All. Now we're still in the same spot. Let's just continue. Go some more. [00:27:03] Speaker C: But yeah, those are my two things so far. Give me two. [00:27:07] Speaker D: Okay, so mine is one of yours. So I'll just say that to get that out the way where I'm more into actions than words, because you could tell me all the things and build me up and tell me and. [00:27:19] Speaker B: And. [00:27:19] Speaker D: And set up the whole expectation. And then I realized that nothing happened. So I pay attention more to actions than words. And I am a word affirmation type of girl, but that's just about you telling me that I'm great. But don't tell me you gonna take me out to eat. And now it's 7 o', clock and I still have. Something that I did that I left, that I don't do anymore for sure is. Especially when I was locked in with someone, which I'm so happy that I removed myself from, that was justifying certain behaviors that I knew that was not serving or benefiting me. And in those situations, it was just like. I know, but. And I get it because I fully understand. And. And it just like. But no, girl, it doesn't make any sense. He didn't call you for three days? He was sick. Oh, yeah. So you don't think that his phone work when he's sick? And it was. It's just. It's things like that where the things [00:28:25] Speaker C: that we tell ourselves to be okay with. It's crazy. [00:28:29] Speaker D: There's no. Yeah, yeah. It doesn't make any sense. [00:28:31] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:28:32] Speaker D: So what was he doing? I think he was building a boat. You know, that's what he told me. [00:28:36] Speaker C: Like trash. And this too. Dealing with a man that you also love enough to make excuses for. It makes you a assassin when it comes to another man's. [00:28:59] Speaker D: Oh, yeah, because now you see it coming. [00:29:01] Speaker C: I've seen the proof that you're bullshitting already. [00:29:06] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:29:06] Speaker C: So once you think you're about to try me with that. Oh, I'm cutting you at the throat. [00:29:11] Speaker D: Yeah. No, I'm. You're not even gonna make it to the other side. Yeah. No. Yeah. I think that's the same thing for me. [00:29:21] Speaker B: The problem I have with that is they just expressed that it was their fault. [00:29:25] Speaker A: Thank you. So listen, listen, listen. What I heard from that was, I'm done. Like, once again, I heard that. Yeah. Good luck, future Negroes. Yeah. This individual has ruined all happiness for y'. All. [00:29:41] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:29:42] Speaker A: When I made the call to Shan, like a lot of men be worried about body count. I've never been a person worried about body count. I don't give a. Quality over quantity. That's all we say. Okay, who you was with, but I say your heart's been ran through more. More than anything else. It's your mind. What does that look like? [00:29:59] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:29:59] Speaker A: Your trust is gone. [00:30:01] Speaker B: Yeah. And you make you making up excuses for that. Sleep in the bed with their jeans on. [00:30:05] Speaker A: That's not. [00:30:05] Speaker B: That's it. That's your fault y' all did that. Y. And you just said he ain't answering his phone the first 30 times. He must be building a boat. [00:30:16] Speaker A: What if he was? Y' all ain't never built a boat [00:30:18] Speaker B: before, and you know how long it takes to build a boat. [00:30:30] Speaker A: Hey, give us some credit. Give him some credit. Give us a credit. We all know some dudes that make some the craziest lies. But as you said, you were entertained by that for whatever reason. But the future brothers got to get blamed for that now because your poor mistakes tolerating that. [00:30:48] Speaker B: Stop dating with that. Wear jeans all the time. [00:30:53] Speaker A: He ain't got one pair of cat. No. Stop dating dudes that don't have a pair of jeans that wear gray slacks. Not gray slacks, but gray. What's it called? A sweatpants. They have nothing but sweatpants. [00:31:03] Speaker B: Joggers. [00:31:06] Speaker A: I had my niece, she dated a boy. I've never seen him in a pair of jeans, shorts, khakis. He always has sweatpants on, even at Easter. What the you doing with sweatpants? [00:31:14] Speaker B: Always got joggers on, no jeans. [00:31:19] Speaker A: They don't let that water touch their back in the shower. [00:31:27] Speaker B: He ain't there running. He in there running the shower, sitting on the toilet. And you think he in there building a boat? [00:31:32] Speaker A: Oh, my God. They coming out in the towel, bone dry. [00:31:37] Speaker B: Yeah, his pinky is wet. [00:31:42] Speaker A: He just put his hand under, check the temperature. And they talk about it gonna be foolishness in every relationship somehow, some way. Okay, let's keep it a Book. But you ain't gotta. I ain't saying you gotta tolerate it, but, man, can you. Can you imagine stepping in a relationship and no matter what you do, where you at, what you doing? I don't believe nothing you said, but [00:32:04] Speaker B: I'm glad y' all was able. I'm glad y' all was able to. To move forward and. And be able to point out the BS before it started again. That's good. That's good. [00:32:15] Speaker A: That's the problem. I guarantee they went through it several times before it stopped, though. We know them. Let's not act like we don't. Okay? [00:32:23] Speaker B: We do know y'. [00:32:24] Speaker A: All. They just got finally, like, one person ruined the fun. Like, not saying they didn't need to go through it in the future, but even. Because once again, I do could be telling the truth, but it's been so ruined the weather, I actually be doing some weird stuff. I ain't doing that. [00:32:43] Speaker B: Shan just said she'd be making love baskets with chia pets in there. That's what she said. [00:32:54] Speaker A: Let's get back to it. Let's get back to it. [00:32:56] Speaker C: Lay your on the table and be like, hey, I'll be there at 8. [00:33:01] Speaker D: You show up at 7:50. [00:33:03] Speaker C: If you can't. [00:33:03] Speaker D: I'm not gonna be ready till 8:15. But I'm so happy you're not that guy. [00:33:07] Speaker A: Okay, [00:33:11] Speaker D: Another one or no, [00:33:14] Speaker C: Now I'm gonna do. I'm gonna do two. [00:33:16] Speaker D: Okay. [00:33:18] Speaker C: Number three is this need to be perfect for a pedestal. I don't want to be on it. I want you to know for the jump, I'm very imperfect. I don't care about you correcting me. I actually like. That gives me something to respect. I'm not trying to be this perfect princess on your arm either. I'm not trying to wear matching outfits to the event with your friends or your family either. And I don't mind you going without me. Okay? So this pedestal life of my. My woman would never try me, and you'll find out. [00:34:01] Speaker D: Okay. Okay. Can I just say one thing with the outfit thing, it might not be matchy, but I think that, like, if you locked in for real, like, and you knew, like, what y' all was wearing, you will find a way to, like, compliment. [00:34:18] Speaker C: You could coordinate and, like, move. Who is this? [00:34:31] Speaker A: Why is she figuring that out? Why she trying to figure it out? Gigi want them. Gigi won a matching pajamas. You can see. You can hear it in the. You can see it. [00:34:39] Speaker B: It's nothing wrong with that. Look, nine times out of ten, If. If the guy that you are dealing with, whether y' all in boyfriend or girlfriend or husband, usually, if. If you don't come from a family who has a. [00:34:55] Speaker A: A, A. [00:34:56] Speaker B: A traditional sports, football team or basketball team, you usually take on the identity of the man. You know, Marcy didn't have that. I'm a Raiders fan. I'm a Lakers fan. I'm a Dodgers fan. So you know what that means. She's a Raiders fan, She's a Lakers fan. She's a DOD Automatically, you know what I'm saying? Now, the matching thing, I understand that I don't want to wear. We both wearing a white tees with the blue jeans and. And. And. And. And the fours. I get that. But there are couples that do that. You know what I'm saying? There's a couple that do that and from time. That's a bonding thing. [00:35:39] Speaker A: It is. [00:35:39] Speaker B: That's. It's about y' all bonding. [00:35:42] Speaker A: Yes. It's a connection. [00:35:43] Speaker D: It. [00:35:44] Speaker A: Everybody don't meet that, you know, somebody. Raiders package. Listen, whatever y' all is, y' all can have. Y' all don't have to have the exact jersey on, but y' all both have jerseys. [00:35:55] Speaker B: Okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:35:56] Speaker A: Like. And like, y' all may have all. Or like, I think Gigi talking about y' all can have the earth tones, you know, if I'm wearing a little bit more of a beige. Okay. With some little khakis, you go throw on a little something that fit. [00:36:10] Speaker B: You know that. [00:36:10] Speaker A: That's how we roll together, baby. [00:36:12] Speaker B: If I got the gravy hoodie on, you gotta have on, you know, the. The Mac and cheese or the yam, you know what I'm saying? Or the forest green or something. We got to be in the. We got to be in. We got to be in the same building, you know, we got to be in sync. Yeah. [00:36:27] Speaker A: You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like playing spades. We have to have a good connection. People need to know if we get lost or separated. Oh, he with her. Okay. You know what I mean? That would. [00:36:39] Speaker D: That. [00:36:39] Speaker A: That's a certain level of relationship. People don't meet. [00:36:41] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:36:43] Speaker A: But you got to be open to it. Like, we got Easter coming up, baby. Resurrection Sunday, what we say. [00:36:48] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:36:48] Speaker A: All right. [00:36:49] Speaker B: Them colors is different. [00:36:51] Speaker A: Hey, I. I'm not always with. I like. But was like, man, we gotta figure out what we go where. I ain't trying to do things. We go figure out what we go where. Yes. Okay. You got it. You know, make it shape. You Know everybody different, and you gotta know your partner, but, you know, in some families, they want you to step out wearing the same thing. It's different. It's different, it's different. Okay, we're gonna pull. We're getting right back to it. Getting right back to it. [00:37:22] Speaker B: Okay, See what I'm saying? [00:37:26] Speaker A: See what I'm saying? [00:37:27] Speaker D: Okay. [00:37:29] Speaker C: Yeah, I. I don't mind, like, we're wearing earth tones. You're wearing earth tones. I'm wearing earth tones. But white pants in certain shoes and YouTube. [00:37:41] Speaker A: White pants are diabolical, though. [00:37:43] Speaker C: I've seen high school pictures at the mall. Couples used to go get together, and it was like a blurred background. [00:37:51] Speaker A: I got some of those. [00:37:51] Speaker C: Yeah. I had an ex that wanted to do that. I said, no, sir, we would not. [00:37:55] Speaker A: Oh, see, Gigi wants that look. [00:38:03] Speaker C: My number four. Most people I dated were creatives that I would pour into, AKA drawing their sketchbook behind or between their sketches. I don't know if I care to be with a creative as much as I used to, because I feel like once you start to admire about them before y' all are in a relationship and you figure out that they're an asshole and they also do this creative over here, it's just like, I kind of liked it when you were just creative and you weren't an. I don't mind being with a man who's not artistic anymore. I don't mind being with a man who's not into, you know, music anywhere. If you just go to work and you're chilling, you're low key, you could be the calm to my madness. Great. Sir, welcome. Welcome aboard. Okay. Welcome aboard. We can do this. It's not. It's not anything crazy. You're loved. Okay, I'm cool with that. Now. [00:39:16] Speaker A: That's a lie. That's a lie. She said anything crazy was the. The baldest faces lie I ever heard. It's all crazy, sir. [00:39:25] Speaker B: Well, here's the. Here's the thing. The. The whole creators being with creators, that's. That's new to me, okay? Because back before the Internet, we. They weren't known. I wasn't known as a creator. I was just known as the. I knew how to draw. That was it. You know what I mean? And I. I agree that I'm not sure if I do want to date or marry a person that does the exact things that I do. I think one of the dopest things that makes my marriage so dope is that I do. I love scary movies. Marcy don't really care. For him. But the fact that I could persuade her to watch a few, you know, every year, that, that, that, that's a bonding thing, you know what I mean? And then, and then, and then, then the trade off is I gotta watch a couple of Hallmark love stories or some rom com or something like that and that. And that's the thing, opposites attract. So I, I do agree that if we both plan online or if we both podcasters, you know what I mean, it could, it, I don't know, it might be. It might be a little bit, A little bit different so I can understand where, where is she coming from? I do need the opposite, you know what I'm saying? Like, Marcy anxiety be on 13 minds be on two. You know what I mean? We need to level it out. You know, I need to bring her down a little bit. So I kind of agree with that. [00:41:00] Speaker A: Balance is important. Balance is important. If. Boo, you know, if Mrs. Wanted to start doing a podcast, I'm gonna support it though. You know, I want to get it together. But like, but if that's something she want to get into and I helps all the way through school and support that. But I don't think she'll be happy if I start getting into the interior design, if I really start liking it. I think she could look at me a little sideways on some things. And I'm not, I'm not a creative as she is, you know, and I think that's cool. But I do peep how Shan correlated asshole would be an artistic. Though I did peep that. And I don't. I, I do know a lot of artists who are. But I won't say automatically you will be an. [00:41:56] Speaker B: I know a lot of. That's. That's weird. [00:41:59] Speaker A: Yeah, I would say that too. And I think that's part of the being. Being peculiar. Let's say that, you know, being peculiar. I think they were like that little. I'm cool with. [00:42:10] Speaker B: I'm cool with agreeing with it because I'm both. Marcy will tell. Marcy will tell you. I'm probably one of the most elite Capricorn assholes out there. But that's, that's within the relationship. I don't think I'm. I don't think I'm. That how I am in my marriage is not how I am in, you know, with the rest of the world, you know, But I, I get it. I get it. You don't. You don't want. You want your own personal asshole. You don't want the. That you just don't like that. Everybody else that you know wouldn't like. [00:42:46] Speaker A: True that. True that. [00:42:47] Speaker B: True that. True that. [00:42:48] Speaker A: True that. [00:42:49] Speaker B: I agree. [00:42:49] Speaker A: Okay, let's see what these beautiful ladies got for us right now. Okay. [00:42:54] Speaker C: And then I'm going to another concert next month solo. [00:42:58] Speaker A: Hey. [00:42:59] Speaker B: Okay. [00:42:59] Speaker D: Where we going? [00:43:00] Speaker C: Use to let men get in the way of my good time. [00:43:05] Speaker D: Right? [00:43:05] Speaker B: There we go. [00:43:06] Speaker A: Look. [00:43:08] Speaker D: You and me, sister. I realize, like, if you keep waiting on anybody, whether it's a man, a friend, or family member, there's gonna. You're gonna miss out on a lot of opportunities. [00:43:16] Speaker C: I missed the Freddie Gives concert last [00:43:19] Speaker D: year, and that's your dude. Yep. [00:43:20] Speaker C: The man. I missed the Currency concert last year because of a man. And I'm just like, no. [00:43:27] Speaker D: Right. I do the same thing. And, like, even if I do book my ticket, like, I'll let people know that I'm going. So if you want to go, go. I let them know the day I'm buying my tickets. And sometimes, like, people will go. We just won't sit together. [00:43:39] Speaker C: I'm still going to this concert regardless. [00:43:42] Speaker D: Yes. Now, the tickets lately have been a little crazy. [00:43:48] Speaker A: Crazy. [00:43:48] Speaker C: That's why I've been like, if I see it, I have it, I buy it. [00:43:52] Speaker D: Right? [00:43:52] Speaker C: Because, like, later on, and the tickets is sky high. [00:43:55] Speaker B: I'm not going. [00:43:56] Speaker D: Yeah, no, like, once you start seeing it on YouTube clips, just let it. Just let it. [00:44:02] Speaker B: Okay. [00:44:02] Speaker A: I. I wholeheartedly agree with that, though. I. With that right there. I wholeheartedly agree. [00:44:08] Speaker B: That's. Thanks for Drake. That's their fault. [00:44:10] Speaker A: I was gonna say you shouldn't put it on a man. That'd be the reason. But she did say, if it's anybody too, though. You know what I mean? So. But I like with. With. Gigi was saying, like, I like with both of them. Like, you shouldn't like, male, female, family member, nothing. If you want to do it, It's a. Like, I don't know if they ever listen to a little flip, but if you see it, want it, buy on it. Like, that is legit. A quote from the third. [00:44:36] Speaker B: You gonna go. You gonna go regardless. Ain't nobody gonna stop you. Ain't nobody stop you. [00:44:41] Speaker A: And that's what. That's what I'm saying. But, you know, Shan was dealing with some. I'm assuming the individual dealing. The Mr. Insecure, like, you know who it was. I'm like, you and. But we were telling her, you shouldn't with him in the first place, though. So I agree with you on that part. Okay. He wouldn't he didn't. He would have sooner or later told you got to get out. We told her he could tell you to get out. The group chat sooner or later. I'm telling you that right now. He ain't ripped. So I would, that's what I said. I would fully agree. Don't let nobody hold you back from being who you are and what you want to do. [00:45:11] Speaker B: That's a fact. That's a fact. Go to that damn concert. [00:45:16] Speaker A: Treat yourself, you know. Hold on. Let's see where we at on this one right here. I don't know if you, you brought it down. I can't see the time on this one because some of you, you never dropped it down. So I don't see the. [00:45:35] Speaker B: I probably should have sent them one by one. [00:45:38] Speaker A: But the thing is, where you have it, I can't see. Let me see if I can hear what they talking about [00:45:46] Speaker C: next month. [00:45:47] Speaker A: Oh, she talking about concerts here. [00:45:50] Speaker D: Things that I left was the soft version of me. [00:45:55] Speaker A: Okay? [00:45:57] Speaker D: I'm not gonna lie. Do I carry a little bit of masculine energy? Probably more now, but like, when I was in relationships and even the ones that particularly, like, stand out, I was very in my soft girl. Was I independent? Absolutely. But my men were, like, very masculine. Like they were men. So I was able to be, you know, Ms. Gigi, not just DJ. I was Ms. DJ, you know, and, but yeah, now I don't got time. No. [00:46:27] Speaker B: So what, now you're a killer? So now you're a killer? Now you Michael Myers. [00:46:31] Speaker A: That's what she sound like. Like she, if you, if we let that plymon she say even her voice be a little higher and stuff of that nature. She even spoke differently. [00:46:41] Speaker B: Hey, look, no man can make. You can, can, can create that soft that, that soft girl era for. You got to want that for yourself. You got to want that for yourself. [00:46:52] Speaker A: All right? [00:46:52] Speaker B: Don't make an excuse to be Michael Myers. That's you. You do. You decided that don't nobody make you happy but yourself first. Okay, so if you used to be soft in 1999, you could be soft in, in 20, 26. You don't have to wait on nobody to make you soft. [00:47:13] Speaker A: I love it. I, I, I'm 50, 50 on this right here. [00:47:17] Speaker B: Okay, [00:47:19] Speaker A: I, I see the perspective. I see what she's coming from. But even Kitty's saying, but the, the point of being a man, you gotta like, when people try to put that definition, what a man is, it can get real nasty out here. [00:47:34] Speaker B: Yeah, that's true. [00:47:35] Speaker A: If I start Throwing the definition. What a woman is real nasty out here, you know, that's why I tell people you got to be a little bit more discreet. Because everybody's definition of what a man, what a woman is, and the behaviors of it has one is different where you live, and it's changed over time. That's culture, baby. It is. But she gotta find somebody that make her feel comfortable for her to feel safe. I think that's what he's come from. She gotta find somebody feel safe with. Obviously, this thing is hard, having that balance. Somebody will feel safe and secure and happy, and you can be yourself. [00:48:13] Speaker B: Well, you got to stop confusing us. If you. If Shannon's out here making Easter basket for niggas. [00:48:18] Speaker A: Hey, man, listen. But the thing is, it's going for it for the next person stepping in because just because some other guy do it now, she. That masculine is in her already. [00:48:32] Speaker B: Well, that masculine. That masculine. That masculine era is still in Roku. [00:48:38] Speaker A: Listen, they already walking around like this. You feel me? So you try to come up like you. You visit opportunity because you. You act like this. You pumping them packs. I like the same. You know, I like. And now it's now the masculine versus masculine. Like, I gotta. No guy want to, like, have to big up their significant other. Like, I have to bark you down. [00:49:02] Speaker B: Yeah, chill out, Michelle Tyson. [00:49:05] Speaker A: Listen, I. I came. I come from a family of women that I. I could do bad without a man. This. This net. And I'm like, where's the camera at? Right here. I know, I know. And I'm like, but if you chill a little bit, you cool. I know it's. You don't want to do it, but if you. It's like I was saying the other day, men like to my honey and relationships, both men and women hunt. Men may use a spear, a rifle, and they may go out camouflage and go and get it. Women go put some bait out. [00:49:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:49:45] Speaker A: They go. Put it on that hook, and they go, let it sing. And it's going to syrup. Yep. [00:49:52] Speaker B: They gonna put some. They're gonna put some syrup on some white stocking. Got him. [00:50:05] Speaker A: A little bit. Lord, that's. That's a grand idea right there, sir. Let me see what these great individuals got for us. [00:50:19] Speaker D: And I not like, like clothes. Like, I'm talking about, like, lingerie. [00:50:22] Speaker A: Speaking of the deal. What? [00:50:26] Speaker D: I left them. I left them there. I didn't want to go get them back. You know, there's sometimes when there's moments where, like, it's over. I don't care for Those [00:50:39] Speaker C: that would not give me my favorite restaurant. [00:50:43] Speaker D: He probably didn't watch it either. He's probably smelling. [00:50:45] Speaker C: Listen. Years later, his dad ends up finding it closed. [00:50:51] Speaker A: I would play that. [00:50:52] Speaker D: Both of them freak underwears and pajamas. [00:50:54] Speaker A: Oh, 100%. We knew this, though. [00:50:56] Speaker B: Yeah. The dad and the son. [00:50:59] Speaker D: I didn't want to go get them back. [00:51:00] Speaker A: I thought you talking about Shan and I'm saying. But we love them for that. Okay. Appreciate. [00:51:08] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. Hey, you gotta. First of all, y' all have admitted to taking hoodies, shirts, boxers, remotes, and shit like that. [00:51:19] Speaker A: Let. [00:51:20] Speaker B: Let that man have that lingerie. Okay? Let him have it. [00:51:25] Speaker A: Like you said, Gigi was like, I ain't paying for it. Like, Jesus said she got some expensive stuff. [00:51:32] Speaker B: She said she do got the exclusive ones that she keep in under the bed. [00:51:39] Speaker A: So I respect that. [00:51:40] Speaker B: So. So what she's telling us is she got some throwaways that she used on. Some of Y' all got throwaway lingerie at y' all crib right now. And your daddy got it, too. [00:51:50] Speaker A: But Gigi also said she running back and it could be with or without you. She was talking about her favorite lingerie, Kitty. I think it was her. Was it her favorite bra or her favorite draws? I can't remember. [00:52:03] Speaker B: Well, Shan said she didn't want the bra back because she couldn't fit it anymore. [00:52:08] Speaker A: She sure did say that. That's crazy work, too. [00:52:10] Speaker B: Yeah. He still got it, though. Pops got it. I think it's in the closet to the left. [00:52:18] Speaker A: Let me see if this is the same one. Okay. Yeah, the other one's not playing. Like, the other one's not opening up yet. [00:52:25] Speaker B: Okay. All right, well, again, back. Back to what they were saying. The. As far as leaving the clothing and what about. What about the. The women that you asked for something back and they didn't want to. Kind of like the situation where you have with the Xbox. [00:52:45] Speaker A: That was different, though. That was. [00:52:46] Speaker B: That was a gift. But you know what if it's one of those things you. Have you ever been in a situation where. All right, I'm about to come over there and pick up my stuff. You know, the. The. The infamous. I got your stuff over here in the box. Come pick it up. But it's a trap, though. [00:53:02] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Once again, I ran into that several times. You know, I ain't going to lie. You go over there. You go over there. [00:53:10] Speaker B: It's smelling like. It's. It's. It smell like passion tea or whatever. She got some Luther on. It's on Low. [00:53:19] Speaker A: You know what. What they used to have back in the day. What they used to have back in the day? Bath and Body Works. [00:53:25] Speaker B: Let. [00:53:25] Speaker A: Take it back. Let's keep it a buck, you know? [00:53:29] Speaker B: Hey, what was that? [00:53:30] Speaker A: What? [00:53:30] Speaker B: Moon. I forgot. I forgot what it was called that Japanese. That. That. That cherry blossom smell. Terrible. But yeah, it was a trap. It was a trap. Anytime they told you to come over and come pick up your stuff, and you went in there and the lights was dim. Get out of there. Get out of there. Because that's their last attempt. Speaking from experience. [00:53:57] Speaker A: Listen, listen. When I say right here, they. They hit some points I. I've always liked. It was something that I can't. I can't find it in the episode. Y' all go. Y' all go check them out. Okay? That is Gigi and Shan with Common. When you get off. Okay, plenty. Episodes. Just don't listen to this one. Go all the way back. Listen to all of them. All right? They're on YouTube, Spotify, all that good stuff. All right. I said I found. I was go. I was gonna. I was gonna message. Oh, I was gonna call Gigi directly. I like, Gigi did not know this about you. I'm like, I did not know this about you. G. What was it? He said something I like. Oh, oh, oh, oh, okay. Sorry. I had to go too. Too train on, y'. [00:54:48] Speaker C: All. [00:54:52] Speaker A: It was about the relationships. The. The. The multi relationships. She had a phase. Oh, yeah, you had a phase. Oh, Well, she said it wasn't for her. She said she tried. She. We. We recorded episode right here, y'. [00:55:11] Speaker D: All. [00:55:11] Speaker B: She kept it real, though. She kept it real. She kept it real. She said it's not for her. It's not for her. [00:55:17] Speaker A: But I would listen. I never would have guessed it. I never would have guessed it. You know? Look, I need them, you know, what did you. Okay, I'm gonna try to scam through. I said I'm fine. Real quick. That was. That was a good little clip right there. [00:55:28] Speaker D: But I did. I did believe it. I did. [00:55:30] Speaker C: Look. [00:55:30] Speaker A: Look at. Look at the Lord right there. [00:55:33] Speaker D: Seeing that there's these red flags that you probably should have seen already, and now they're more apparent than ever. And you still kind of holding on to. We're gonna figure this out. We're gonna get back to the time and, you know. You know, do you remember the time when we fell in love? [00:55:52] Speaker A: Right? [00:55:53] Speaker D: You know, when we first met? Girl, yes, like that. [00:55:59] Speaker C: Okay. [00:55:59] Speaker D: But sometimes it don't go back. [00:56:01] Speaker C: Sometimes expensive. And I can't afford it. You said time is expensive, as I hope is expensive. And I cannot. [00:56:07] Speaker D: It is. But I did. I did believe it. I did. It was like. I was. I was gonna say like a crackhead search for the first. And I did crack. I don't know how it feels. I don't know what the first thing. So I don't want to use that. [00:56:26] Speaker C: Okay, that is so funny. Okay, what are my next ones? My next one. [00:56:36] Speaker A: I don't know if that was it or not. [00:56:39] Speaker C: Okay. My number seven is my urge for outside sessions. I'm too old for that. [00:56:46] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:56:48] Speaker D: What you mean like humping? Like in your car? [00:56:50] Speaker C: That's what you're talking about? I'm have to clean it up because. [00:56:55] Speaker D: Oh, my bad. [00:56:57] Speaker C: My. [00:56:59] Speaker D: I hope. I hope she. Did she hear. Did she hear me say that? I'm so sorry. [00:57:04] Speaker A: Let me get it. Let me get her off of here. [00:57:06] Speaker D: I said pumping gas in your car. [00:57:07] Speaker A: We had to make a few calls. Let me tell you that. Listen, I don't think you ever too old to have adventures in the wilderness, okay? But you got to lose now. [00:57:20] Speaker B: Yes. Yes. [00:57:22] Speaker A: And we got cameras everywhere. [00:57:25] Speaker B: Everywhere. [00:57:27] Speaker A: Cameras are good. These are very high quality. Listen, when I got my first ticket, but running a red light and I was gonna go to court and try to lie and try to say wasn't me. This is. They not only sent me a picture, but they sent a video. [00:57:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:57:43] Speaker A: This is years ago. That. The clarity on that thing was so great. I like here. You know how much. How much would you like me to write this [00:57:53] Speaker D: boy? [00:57:54] Speaker A: Like, y' all see, I can see me that clearly. Y' all can see the. The food in my beard. Like I was eating in the car. That's I was eating chick fil a driving to the crib. I'm like, what? [00:58:04] Speaker B: So to piggy. To piggyback off of what Shan said. It's not just. We don't have time. That's too risky. It's too risky. You know what I mean? Like Drake just said, it's too many cameras and these companies are petty as hell. Okay? It will. It don't matter. It can come out. A year from now, two years from now, that footage is going to come out and it's gonna end up on Twitter real quick. You know what I mean? So. [00:58:33] Speaker A: And somebody gonna tag you. [00:58:35] Speaker B: It's not even worth it. It's not even worth it. Them days of elevator, stair, stairway, cage. [00:58:41] Speaker A: Oh, my gosh. [00:58:42] Speaker B: You know those movie theaters? Yeah, it's. Oh, especially the movie theaters. The cameras, they gotta Tell you what, it is over. Hey, watch that movie. Just watch the movie, okay? [00:58:55] Speaker A: Do a little. [00:58:56] Speaker B: Hey, do a little cuddling. You know what I'm saying? [00:58:59] Speaker A: Put your arm around the shoulder. You know, put the armrest up. Now get a little close. [00:59:03] Speaker B: Get your little. Get you a little smooth. [00:59:04] Speaker D: Get a little. [00:59:05] Speaker A: A little handful, you know? [00:59:07] Speaker B: Hey, once you start wrestling with those private parts, you're being recorded, buddy. [00:59:12] Speaker A: When they come in there and hit you with that. That light in your face. [00:59:15] Speaker B: Yeah. And that light is elite police officer light right there, okay? And everybody know what's going on. Everybody about to look at it. [00:59:22] Speaker A: Okay? The movie. What's on? What's going on over here? What'? Do it over here. Use a freak, boss. [00:59:32] Speaker B: Use a freak. It's nothing. It's Nothing romantic about Scream 7. So what y' all do? [00:59:40] Speaker A: That's where you gotta have that burner. [00:59:42] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:59:42] Speaker A: Because. Listen, listen, I understand. I understand. This is. This is. This is important. [00:59:54] Speaker D: I got Carly. Carly. For anybody. [00:59:57] Speaker C: Now he has, what, three? [01:00:00] Speaker A: Oh, this is a good one. [01:00:03] Speaker C: And I'm just like, yeah, I still want to be confident in that. Yeah. [01:00:10] Speaker D: Because, I mean, that only showed that he can. [01:00:12] Speaker C: I'm kind of like, okay, Because Anya could tell me things. [01:00:15] Speaker D: Yes. [01:00:16] Speaker C: And Anya has enough sense to be like, yeah, you probably shouldn't let me be doing this. You know what I'm saying? But I'm screaming, yeah, those are my two. [01:00:35] Speaker D: Again. Like, mine is, like, broken up into seconds, but I'm gonna use one of them. Was that when I was in my relationship, I got Carly. Carly. For anybody that doesn't know, shout out to Carly, that is my dog. And although she was given to me, we were together when we got her. And so when we broke up, it was like, okay, this is my dog. And there was like a little back and forth where it was just like, no, this is our dog. And I was like, okay, you walked her. You might have paid for her food, but no, no, this is. This is my dog. And it almost got to the point where he was just there. Like, we need to make a schedule where I come pick her up and I have her for a week or a weekend and we switch off. I said, oh, I. I took my dog. I ain't never seen that dog since. [01:01:37] Speaker C: That's crazy. Like, what, to piggyback on that. That was. [01:01:46] Speaker B: Listen, that's the Xbox story. [01:01:48] Speaker A: Yeah. I'm a side with Jesus. When I heard outside with Gigi on that, like, you gave me a gift of my dog. You could. Hey, have y' all watched Losing Isaiah. You gonna see me in court? Like, no way there straight up custody battle over my bookie. You know, Gigi love Carly. [01:02:14] Speaker B: Gigi basically said, hey, that. That was. That's basically his way of saying, I'm trying to stay connected to you some way somehow. [01:02:22] Speaker A: Oh, the same thing with people be using baby mama. Baby, it's ain't nothing different. Ain't nothing different, bro. It's just with a pet, if I come out connected like, man, let me tell you, when the amount of search and effort we put forth, like I was praying for her to find Carly. And like a black person, I like, let me put Carly on the phone. Yeah, situated. They had a scared when Carly ran away. So I know she was about that. Like, Gigi probably went across state lines. Get away from that. If he would have took that dog, Gigi would have did. Like how they be doing on the Amber alerts? I was looking at the Mamba alerts. I would look at if they share the last name. Oh, that's the daddy. [01:03:06] Speaker B: Because that's kidnapping. At the end of the day, [01:03:09] Speaker C: she [01:03:10] Speaker B: know damn well you don't want the dog. [01:03:13] Speaker A: Gigi's in the chat. Hello. You better. [01:03:18] Speaker B: Hi, G.G. [01:03:24] Speaker A: Oh, God. [01:03:25] Speaker B: That would have been top tier kidnapping if he would have took Carly, man. [01:03:28] Speaker A: We already know. Oh, goodness. Let's see what else we got. [01:03:33] Speaker D: See what else there's about those. But. And. And I think that's what it is. The seamless notion. Those. [01:03:40] Speaker C: No, instantly. [01:03:42] Speaker A: Oh, they talking about panties. [01:03:44] Speaker C: Never bought one since, you know, you [01:03:47] Speaker D: never experience sometimes if they grew up in certain places where the dogs was off the leash and they got bit or they got chased, they got a little trauma. [01:03:54] Speaker A: Oh, hold on, hold on, hold on. This is a special one. We gotta talk about. [01:04:03] Speaker C: Beaming yellow light because people talk about red flags. I'm talking about yellow light because. [01:04:10] Speaker D: Right. [01:04:11] Speaker C: Not horrible, but I just know, like, I probably won't have kids with you because of this. They were scared of anything on four feet. Dogs, cats, insects, Me. And as a man, I can't call you in here to kill a spider. No, I can't call you over here because [01:04:37] Speaker A: we'll pull it back. [01:04:38] Speaker C: You mean yellow light? Because people talk about red flags. I'm talking about yellow light because. [01:04:46] Speaker D: Right. [01:04:46] Speaker C: Not horrible, but I just know, like, I probably won't have kids with you because of this. They were scared of anything on four feet. Dogs, cats, insects. I was like [01:05:05] Speaker D: me. [01:05:05] Speaker C: And as a man, I can't call you in here to kill a spider. No, I can't call you over here, because there's an entrail. We got to figure out where it's coming from. If there's a dog on the leash with somebody, you now want to walk across the other side of the street. Your kind of showing. I was like, in my mind, I was like, if we have kids, you mean we will never take them to the zoo? They'll never have pets. [01:05:34] Speaker D: I'm screaming, well, pets is fine because you don't really care for them like that. And the zoo. If he's not going to the zoo and these are enclosed animals, then I think that he needs a little bit of more therapy. But, you know, I just. [01:05:45] Speaker C: I. I want to take my kids to the pet store. And sometimes as their dad, I want [01:05:53] Speaker A: you to come, but you can't come and match with me and my family. That's. [01:05:57] Speaker B: Hey. [01:05:57] Speaker A: Okay. Hey. Okay, that's. Hey. First of all. First of all, I know what kind [01:06:02] Speaker B: of spider is it exactly. [01:06:05] Speaker A: Listen, that's what. That's why I got. That's when I. When I heard that. That's when I called Shan. That's when I got on the phone with Shan. I like, you know what? Be. Be happy in the position you in right now, because I don't know why you sharing this information, because first I'll fight a dog. Okay? [01:06:21] Speaker B: Yeah. Off top, one of my neighbors. [01:06:23] Speaker A: Listen, square up, okay? I'll fight a person. I'll fight a bear for you. But, man, you come across a big ass spot of that. He's saying that. [01:06:34] Speaker B: Here's the thing. Okay, here's the thing. Here's the thing. Shan, I kill it. [01:06:39] Speaker A: But, man, I ain't got. I ain't gonna look manly when I do it. [01:06:42] Speaker B: Here's. [01:06:43] Speaker A: And I. Listen, I have a video. [01:06:45] Speaker B: Drake, after this episode, I'm gonna send you the video. [01:06:48] Speaker A: Don't send me that. Look, send it to me. Look, I'm so serious. I didn't know. Don't even see me that I hate spider. [01:06:55] Speaker B: You're gonna cross the street. [01:06:58] Speaker A: I make a salary where I hire exterminators to come out and spray. Anytime I have a piss to come out, they will come and kill it or they'll come and get it out. [01:07:08] Speaker B: Hey. Okay, man. [01:07:11] Speaker A: Shout out. I can't even think of the name of the company right now. Pissed away or something like that. But I remember one night in old House, she called me, you scared to go to garage? It's a bat in the garage. [01:07:24] Speaker B: Oh, that's different. [01:07:25] Speaker A: Bat in the garage. Okay. Not the ones I like. Not the Ones I like [01:07:32] Speaker B: in a garage. Ain't nobody going in there. [01:07:34] Speaker A: I open the garage because she done went to the front. I'm like, okay. I get home, whatever I go in, I hit. I'm like, do you have. Me with that dog? Go like this? [01:07:51] Speaker B: Hey, what, what did, what you what, what did, what you call it say about the. Close the door. [01:07:56] Speaker A: Close the door. Listen, no, I'm in the middle of the garage, G. That's the thing. Don't close the door. Honestly, I look back at the peripheral, it got caught on one of the stinky traps and it's just like looking at me like this. I'm like, yeah, let me go ahead and call these people to come pick this up in the morning. [01:08:14] Speaker B: Drake. Unfortunately, me and Marcy got this thing called [01:08:20] Speaker A: again. [01:08:21] Speaker B: Like you said, I'm gonna protect my sugar and my sugar, she gonna protect me the best way we can. But we also have a thing called there's no time. [01:08:29] Speaker A: I believe you. [01:08:31] Speaker B: There's no time if you close that door. I understand. [01:08:40] Speaker A: No, I do not. Listen, my homeboy did that to me. We were young, we running from dogs, and he closed the door on us like the dogs was gonna open the door. Not only he closed it, though, he closed it and locked it on us. I'm like, dang, what are you doing? [01:08:53] Speaker B: That's not, that's not the homie. Here's the thing. Here's. Here's the thing, Shane. I am scared of Daddy Long Legs, okay? I've always been afraid. I've always, I've always been afraid of spiders, okay? Marcy is, she is, she can't be in the same. She can't be in a five mile radius of an ant. She is terrified of ants, okay? So we have or can come every other, every other, every other month to spray around the house, to spray inside the house. She can't do ants. I don't care about ants. Dance, don't bother me. I also don't want them crawling up in my house like they own the spiders. I've killed so many spiders because I'm. I mean, even though I'm scared of them, I still gotta, I gotta be a man about it. So I understand where you coming from, but don't sit up there and, and, and, and talk down on this. If you see a goddamn. You see a, you see a spider and you can see their eyes, you do it. [01:09:51] Speaker A: You do it. Have you seen a huntsman spider before? [01:09:55] Speaker D: I'. [01:09:55] Speaker B: Ma. Look, I don't know if I want to look it up, but it Sounds scary. Anytime a spider got a fancy name to it, I don't want to have nothing to do with it. That sounds, that sounds like he. It sounds like it's the Chuck Norris of spiders, man. [01:10:11] Speaker A: And they all. Honestly I hear they cool though. I heard they don't mess with people. They actually kill the other insects around. But them hoes are big though. And they all are they. In my neighborhood we have huntsman spiders all around this. And bro them ho about your palm. Oh but man, have you ever seen a tarantula in the wild though? [01:10:29] Speaker B: That I've seen. I've seen a tarantula. I enclose one. Okay. And that was good enough. [01:10:35] Speaker A: Nah, you ain't seen one in a while, brother. That, that, that. I never forget coming home. This is my senior year maybe. Yeah probably my senior year. I come home and well you know this, you know what we have. I'm in dead end black neighborhood. Okay. I come. I, I like. So we had this long walkway going to the front door to the porch and I'm. I thank God every boy if the lights were off. I'm glad because I had family in town and I remember walking and I got dropped off leaving the movie good time and I remember looking, I like that's a big ass spider. What the hell? And I like, I'm like you said, I'm like what? I'm like at least by good. Still like 15ft away. And I remember having. Oh, I flip phone Nokia. Hey, hey, somebody pick up the phone. I'm not going. I. I'm asleep outside. Yeah, I'm not coming inside the house. You got it? And I called my brother, my brother in law picked up at the time and he like man, I said man like be careful. Open the door. We hadn't. We had a glass screen door though, man. I know tarantula will bite, man. He opened the door, he like God, you know. Once again from the cushion. Good God almighty. Like I said. So I'm not tripping. That's a tarantula. [01:11:55] Speaker B: He's like hell yeah, that's a tarantula. [01:11:57] Speaker A: Now he went him. Now he, he wins he country. You know, he. He came out with a big ass boot splattered ass all across. [01:12:04] Speaker B: Man. [01:12:04] Speaker A: I like boy got to. [01:12:06] Speaker B: You gotta protect. You gotta protect your family. [01:12:08] Speaker A: Shout out to the real men. [01:12:11] Speaker B: Now look, now look. I would have shot it a tarantula. Them things is they, they hairy birds and, and they see you. They see you. Okay. We was in Jamaica Duns River. [01:12:23] Speaker A: Oh this. Oh he in different countries no. [01:12:26] Speaker B: And we're what? We're walking and to the right. It was this spider and it was kind of like. It was the booty. It was colorful. The legs was immaculate. They was shiny. I kid you not. The nigga that the tourist, the tour. Not the tourist. [01:12:47] Speaker A: The guy. [01:12:47] Speaker B: The guy, he seen me see the spider. He looked dead at me. He said, shut up. He said, shut up, right? We walked past it. He whispered in my ear. He said, if you scream, everybody else gonna scream. Everybody else gonna scream and they gonna run with every way. He said, shut up. [01:13:19] Speaker A: Sounds like we need that type of check as men. Like, thank you, brother man. Listen, he could. [01:13:27] Speaker B: It was. It wasn't. It wasn't high up. It was enough to where if somebody panicked and ran the wrong way, they could run into it. So he was like. He said, shut up. Because if you go crazy, they gonna go crazy. I had to shut up. But that mother boy, like, that's a. [01:13:46] Speaker A: That's something like a lot of shout out to the. Because listen, men need men too. We need positive. That's the thing. We do need each other on things. I don't care what you say. Hey, Michael Kim folk, he killed that spider. I helped him how to fix his phone. Okay. We got different things, you know, like, we got. We gotta, you know, iron, sharpen iron. But boy, I know, like. But as being men, I think it's a big responsibility. When you see danger, it's not the panic in front of your significant other too. Okay? Because we can handle it. But at the same time, it's not to scare them. They shouldn't. So what he did, I think it's a very responsible thing as well. But I. I gotta say, it was like at a time where I. This one was in Seattle and was getting on the train. She was thinking about taking public transportation just right, right before COVID Okay. And, you know, Seattle, a little peculiar. It's a little different up there. Okay. And it was a dude. He. I. I'm. I'm assuming he may have been on some mini stilts or something because he was at least about 7 foot tall, trench coat with a Doberman pincher mask on. At 6am in the morning. Yes, bro. And I'm on the track. And, you know, if you ever been in this position, you see something crazy before, your lady see it just like with that spider. Oh, you peeps it. I'm like, oh. And I'm like, all right, I gotta pee. Okay. I gotta keep it cool. [01:15:02] Speaker B: You. [01:15:03] Speaker A: Yeah, I gotta keep it cool. I was like, I Like, I like it. I'm like. Because I'm already kind of like, you know, getting limbled just in case, because he. Everybody but everybody else act like, this ain't no big deal. This like. Yeah. And then all of a sudden, she starts squeezing my thigh and I'm like, hey, I saw it. I've been seeing it. I've seen it like five minutes ago. Yeah, he gonna be okay. It'll be okay. I got you. That is something. [01:15:32] Speaker B: Shout out. Shout out to the husbands who. Who seen some stuff that they wife never seen. You just never seen that you never seen, that you just don't know about. Because we know how y' all get. So shout out. [01:15:47] Speaker A: Keep the peace, bro. You peace about it, man. [01:15:51] Speaker B: Shut up. [01:15:54] Speaker A: Hey, you shut up. Like, you right, you right, you right, you right. [01:15:59] Speaker B: All right. [01:15:59] Speaker A: Shot for. All right, let's do. Let's do one more. See what they got for us. They had a good episode though. Yeah, they did. [01:16:06] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:16:07] Speaker D: Wow. Same page. So. Yeah. I hate this one. I'm screaming, oh, my God. [01:16:21] Speaker C: Oh, my gosh. I gotta find this lip gloss. My number 10 is a bubble gum flavored lip gloss that he also took. It won't give back to me. [01:16:34] Speaker D: What? Wait, stop. [01:16:35] Speaker C: Wait. [01:16:36] Speaker D: What? What he do with it? What? [01:16:38] Speaker C: He keeps it and he uses it and he's just like, I remember when you came to my house when we were in high school and you had this bubble gum. [01:16:46] Speaker A: High school. [01:16:47] Speaker C: I just going to keep it. [01:16:50] Speaker D: Is the same one. I kept the bra. [01:16:52] Speaker A: Oh, see? [01:16:53] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:16:57] Speaker D: I think that we're going down the street that I think is suddenly made a left. [01:17:02] Speaker C: And I've never been able to find that flavor in that brand. [01:17:07] Speaker A: It's expired. That's. Let it go. It's expired now. [01:17:11] Speaker C: Like this. These like 10 circle little gloves and [01:17:15] Speaker A: I used to get it. [01:17:18] Speaker B: Yeah. You know, You don't know what people be into nowadays. [01:17:29] Speaker A: You know. Listen, I ain't from high school. No, no, no. I've been out of high school for a long time now. I ain't keep it. Listen, but hey, but when you start putting them little traps on people, them little boxes on people, Shan, that's what you get. [01:17:47] Speaker B: That's what happens. That's what happened. [01:17:49] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:17:50] Speaker A: You can't get mad when you want to attract crazy. Crazy here now. Yeah. [01:17:55] Speaker B: You can't get in a relationship and start making dream catchers. [01:17:59] Speaker A: Yeah, but listen. And that's why I was getting down something about one of the dudes who did something crazy. I'm like, baby, you stepped into that. I Like, you cannot punish the whole thing. I would say what I would get to this. We cannot consistently punish the people that come after us, after the people who should be punished. Okay. [01:18:26] Speaker B: How do they be finding these weird cats, though? [01:18:28] Speaker A: Like, what? They be everywhere. I don't. I don't know. They be out there, though, because I ain't. [01:18:32] Speaker B: Just. [01:18:32] Speaker A: Listen. My home girl. I don't know if she's still in here now. Now or not, but, shoot, they. They out there. They out there. Don't get some weird ladies out here, too. But that's what I'm saying. That's why I be like, man, like, if y' all try to date women, you'll come across a plethora of weirdos, too. Just let it be known by that. [01:18:51] Speaker B: Yeah, but we know. We don't. We don't. We don't sit up there. We don't sit up there and wait for six weeks and be like, something weird about her. No, we took that risk because she's weird, but she wears stockings. [01:19:08] Speaker A: Oh, Lord. Listen, I have to fight them things. You feel me? Listen, did you. It was one. I was talking about this the other night. It was like, in my younger days, this young woman I like. She would have been my. Definitely been my cup of coffee. You did, but very pretty. Okay. And they asked her, how many dimes are in a dollar? [01:19:31] Speaker B: What'd she say? [01:19:32] Speaker A: And, boy, the way she stumbled, bubbled and tumbled and went out. She never gave an answer. Brother after, like, that was the hardest. [01:19:43] Speaker B: Messed her up. [01:19:45] Speaker A: And I'm, like. [01:19:46] Speaker B: Caught her off guard. [01:19:52] Speaker D: Damn. [01:19:53] Speaker B: You say she used to reword her finger. [01:19:56] Speaker A: She was counting, trying to. She said, a dime is 10 cents, so you got that in 20. Then somehow she got to a quarter. It's four quarters to make a dollar. I like this girl got this to be playing, baby. She did. She carried that all the way out of my interest. Okay. [01:20:13] Speaker B: Turned it into long division. And I. [01:20:16] Speaker A: It was just so. And I knew you could tell the dude, you know, they'd be walking around the microphones because she was very pretty. I'm like, baby, we want you to see. I want to see you win. Okay? Yeah, but they Privilege or something, and I. I learned that at an early age, too. Everything glittering gold. Nah, no, no, you can. You can. You can hate math, but 10. [01:20:37] Speaker B: 10 dimes. [01:20:39] Speaker C: 10. [01:20:39] Speaker A: Come on. It's $10, man. [01:20:41] Speaker B: Here's. Here's the thing. Here's the thing, Shan. I, too, had. This was during the. I had someone. And. No, me and this girl wasn't I've told this story before, right? [01:20:53] Speaker A: This girl, it looked inside of your face, girl. [01:20:56] Speaker B: No, not that one. Not that one. This one was a New Year's Eve party in the dorms in Northridge, and this girl just happened to be a little too intoxicated to where she dug it. And we were dancing in the living room. It was one of. Have you ever had a New Year's Eve where you had no plans and then you was just scrambling to find something to do that night? [01:21:25] Speaker A: Yes. [01:21:26] Speaker B: That happened to be one of those years. And the homie got one of those last minute calls, was like, hey, these girls I know, they having a New Year's Eve party in they dorm. And we mobbed up over there. And we get over there, it's a couple of. It's a couple of dudes. There's some girls from down the hallway. They got some music going. They got a couple of bottles. The dudes end up leaving or whatever. And we started dancing on the dance. It ain't no dance floor, but we in the living room. But she was gone. I mean, she was. She was oil liquor, that liquor. She was liquor, right? [01:22:03] Speaker A: She then [01:22:06] Speaker B: puts her hand in my pocket. We dancing like, she puts her hand in my pocket. She took my carmax. And this is the car. Max, this is not the one where you squeeze the. [01:22:18] Speaker A: The. [01:22:18] Speaker B: What you call it out. [01:22:19] Speaker A: This is the one you turn. [01:22:21] Speaker B: Yeah, this the one you. [01:22:22] Speaker A: Exactly. [01:22:22] Speaker B: This is. [01:22:23] Speaker A: I got you. I got you. I got you. [01:22:25] Speaker B: He took it out my pocket, backed up, kept dancing, and start putting it on her lips. Took it right fast forward. We. She drunk too much. To where? I had to take her to her. Her room to put her in her bed. I put her in the bed. I left out. But before that. [01:22:49] Speaker A: That's a gentleman. [01:22:50] Speaker B: Yeah, well, I'm. When I. When I say pissy drunk, news news flash. That was never. That was never attractive women never. Never, right? But before that, she looked at me and said, this nigga tried to steal my carmax. That's not. It wasn't yours. [01:23:10] Speaker A: It's not yours. Yeah, yeah. [01:23:12] Speaker B: That's what I knew it was. It was time to go. It was time to go. Her roommate said, can you please help me to her? Put her in the bed? I said, all right. I got right out of there. But I never forget that night because we was dancing, we was vibing, and she dug in my pocket, took my carmax out, used that mug right in front of me, and then told the whole room and said, this. Tried to steal my car. [01:23:39] Speaker A: Listen Deja Pale said it best. When a woman accused you of something you didn't do, it would almost drive you insane as a man. [01:23:48] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [01:23:49] Speaker A: Like you would go bad crazy because you just know how quickly that that lie was spread. And it's been some times that let's. I had somebody lie on me and I had a thing even though I wasn't even in the same damn city. Anything I like, did I do that Just because I'm like, there's no way. [01:24:07] Speaker B: But oh, safe to say I didn't get that. I don't think I got that car back. But she. [01:24:14] Speaker A: And as soon as she it was hers, it was over. [01:24:19] Speaker B: Oh yeah, it's over. It's over. She didn't wake up till about 3 o' clock that next day. Gone. January 1st. [01:24:27] Speaker A: I ever tell you about the girl that peed in my. Peed on my pillow. Well, okay, I'm gonna tell this quick. I used to tell this story. [01:24:36] Speaker B: Can I ask. Can I ask a question before you even go? [01:24:39] Speaker A: Please, go ahead. [01:24:41] Speaker B: Was there clothes on? [01:24:45] Speaker A: I think she had a Dr. I don't know what she had on. That's the problem. I wasn't there when she did it. [01:24:49] Speaker B: Oh, okay. Okay. Proceed. [01:24:51] Speaker A: Okay. So home girl next door neighbor. Once again it be the prettiest one. It'd be the put together man. Listen, kicked it. I kind of peeped. She was a little. I pe. I peeped. She was going through something. I didn't know at that time. I just thought it was weird because when she said some things about, you know, finals coming up. This is senior year. We getting ready for like, you know, you gotta crack down, baby. You gotta lock in. And I was going to the library. I like, yeah, I'm about to do some like some overnight study at the library. You can come with me. She was like, oh, I lost my library car like a month or so ago. Like a month ago. How you been studying, baby? Like this is. It's real in the field right here. But so whatever. I peeped. That was the first time I peeped. So the thing is she didn't get along with her roommate and I was cool with both of them, you know. But the case point is I'm like, we gonna make it shake. I went out with my partner. This we didn't see is. Is I had a big party the night of my graduation. Lit big party, great time. Okay. The next day some of the other partners were throwing a party. All right. And they were throwing that party at a hookah bar. All right. All My people came in from out of town. Family, friends, my homeboys, they girlfriends, wives, whatever. At the time, I only had one that was married. That was crazy. But the thing was, you know, this is right before Kevin Hart Special came out. And that's what made me such a fan of Kevin Hart, because it is, you know, you can't go out because the. Gwen was taking forever to get dressed and get ready. So we said we about to go hit the spot real quick and we're gonna come back and get y', all, okay? Because we. It's getting late. We just, you know, it's like 10 o'. Clock. We want to hit the spot. Boom, boom, boom. Step out. Had a great time out there, boy. I'm talking about. I'm talking about we. We turned in the mouth. That is my partner. Hey, ain't so and so supposed to be here? She's like, yeah, the guy, one of the other guys that's hosting the party for the Graduate, he had to take her back home. She got too drunk. And I remember she telling me she had a big crush on him a minute ago, and she was trying to make her move on him. And as you said, she didn't understand, like, everything you just said. That ain't the move to do. Get sloppy drunk, baby. [01:27:04] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:27:04] Speaker A: And I think her thought was to get drunk. So just like in the movie, so he. She feel comfortable, express her feelings, emotions, whatever the case may be. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And they got that liquor, licked her. All right. But I'm like, oh, that's crazy. So, okay, cool. So she. She didn't. Took her back to the spot. Whatever. We have a good time. We like all day. The lady's probably ready now. Let's go ahead. Head back. And I remember driving back, we in a suburban boy. And I'm like, hey, lock in. You know, you can't look. Look like you had a boring time. You gotta look mad. Do not go in here smiling. If you go in here smiling, it'll ruin everything. We gotta look like we had a terrible time. So I'm trying to. We laughing and giggling, going up the stairs, like, okay, all right. Open the door. My wife, she was my girlfriend at the time, but she opens the door with nothing but her bra panties on. I'm like, hey, the you over. What the you like all my. Behind me. You know what I mean? Yeah, my baby thick. You got audible. You got audible. She was. But no, she was like, hey, don't be. When. Eric, don't be mad. I'm thinking, what the you Mean, don't be mad. I'm thinking, like. And I'm like, she say so and so peed. She. She just put it out. So and so peed on y. [01:28:28] Speaker B: She. [01:28:29] Speaker A: She was drunk. She peed and wiped herself with the pillow. Boy, look what I say. [01:28:38] Speaker B: So she literally gave the clothes off of her back. Did she do that? [01:28:44] Speaker A: They were getting ready. They had. My wife is a given person. She always had been loving. She don't play, but she. They had to take her over. They saw she was, like, living in damn near squalor. Like, she. She probably was in heavy depression. Like, they say they. She had water bottles and all that. Like, it was real. Like, oh, she. [01:29:03] Speaker B: She. [01:29:04] Speaker A: Man, she. Like. The best way to say she, like, almost like, juicy. Not juicy, but was. Was justice Smell like sister one of them I've seen. [01:29:13] Speaker B: But I've seen both of them recently on in. [01:29:15] Speaker A: Yeah. Yeah, me too. She looked like one of the. She looked like she'd be the third one. Okay, that's. Yeah, but I mean, that's what she looked like, okay? Very and talented. And the thing is, you would never. But I'm like, boy, when I tell you the way I sew it up, I like, what the you just said. [01:29:29] Speaker B: I'm like, huh, that pillow gone, man. [01:29:32] Speaker A: And it was like one of my PlayStation controllers on my rug. And, like, it was, like, numerous violations, bro. Okay? And I'm like, why the. You didn't. [01:29:43] Speaker B: Like, you didn't whip ahead? [01:29:46] Speaker A: She's like, no, I didn't. I like, nah. I remember calling one of my other partners that wasn't around us, and I tell him, you won't believe what happened. He like, I'm about to come over there. We about to drag that. Hey, man, I like, dude, like, no. And I. I should have done. Every time. I think I told the story about him before. Every time somebody came up my house violating. I wouldn't have to say nothing. He would check them so fast, bruh. I'm talking about with the quickness he was on him. [01:30:18] Speaker B: But I know you didn't come to my partner's house, come and eat up [01:30:20] Speaker A: his food, sip on his drink, and. And didn't come and say hello. Y' all think y' all gonna leave? Like, that's what. Yo, he used to be on it. If you see him, you would never think he'll be on that type of stuff. Okay? He's like, but either way, long story short, you know, like, the next day, she came over like nothing happened because she completely didn't know she it was because she completely blacked out over that whole night. [01:30:41] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:30:42] Speaker A: And I kind of snapped on and told her why. Like, told her to get out. And then my other partner told her, like, because she said, why is. Why is Brandon so mad? Why are you so upset? Oh, because you pissed on the floor. Everything wiping. She like, I did. She like, I did what, man? Yeah, she didn't come. She didn't come over by two weeks. She would see me and, like, run, and I like, I ain't trying to hurt you, but, you know, she knew I was. We're gonna have to have that conversation. I like, you just need to replace my rug. I ain't worried about the pillow. You need to replace my PlayStation controller. Like, that's it. [01:31:14] Speaker B: Control about 60, $70, boy. [01:31:17] Speaker A: Let me tell you that. That PlayStation 3, let me tell you that. [01:31:20] Speaker B: Oh, you had a limited control. [01:31:23] Speaker A: Oh, man. Listen, when. When that drunk. That drunk feeling be going on, it's different, but. [01:31:31] Speaker B: Nah. [01:31:32] Speaker A: Going back to that. Ladies, great job on the episode. [01:31:34] Speaker B: Phenomenal. Y' all gotta go listen to the rest of it, man. Yeah, I love it. I love it. And look, I wouldn't. I just. I just wanted to mess with y' all mostly. All was valid, but I know I. I'll be. I'll be peeping. I'll be peeping. Okay, but still in the remote. That's just down low. That's crazy. That's crazy. [01:31:53] Speaker A: The Roku What? What? [01:31:56] Speaker B: What Jay Z say, you don't get a back like that. Don't do that. You know what I'm saying? [01:32:03] Speaker A: We love, man. Once again, y' all did a good job. Y' all keep it up. Y' all look great. Y' all happy. You know, Listen, y', all, y'. All. Y' all be on it. Y' all be careful out here, though. Yeah, y'. All. Y' all be giving up the yams to these guys that don't want to put no sugar in the pot, you know, don't want to bring. Don't want to cook nothing. That's all I'm saying. [01:32:24] Speaker B: There's over 8 billion people out here. 8 point something billion people out here, man. So stay out there, stay away from. Find you a dude that know how to fight dogs and buy your own [01:32:38] Speaker A: car to put them in headlock. [01:32:40] Speaker B: Yeah, buy your own car, Max. So shout out. You want to shout out the podcast again? [01:32:48] Speaker A: Yeah, shout out to call me. Hold on, let me. Is it. Call me when you get off. Let me make sure. Okay. What's. What's them. It's things. We left with an X and a name. I want to make sure. I'm serious. [01:33:03] Speaker B: I don't. And I don't have. And I don't have a number either. That's the thing. They gotta. They got a hotline that you can call a voice. A voice line. A voice line, A voice message. I mean. [01:33:15] Speaker A: Oh, Gigi was talking about that voice line on there, too. [01:33:18] Speaker B: Yeah, you can go ahead and. So go ahead and listen to the episode. Fast forward to the end to get the number, but then go back to the beginning. Listen to the whole episode, and then send in. Yeah, send in your ex, your experiences and what you left behind or whatever he left behind or she left behind and. And share y' all experiences with them. They dope because they. They creating cults and. [01:33:48] Speaker A: Let me go with the outro. Let's see. Let's go. Okay. [01:33:53] Speaker C: And if you want to call us, you can call us at 702-848-175. You can also email us at. Call me when you get off. The email is in the show notes. You can find me on IG Twitter. And. Yeah, that's it. Because I'm not on TikTok anymore at Chevy Potting. And Gigi here. Here, she has pots, but she really checks those faces, so, yeah, don't. [01:34:24] Speaker A: Okay. [01:34:25] Speaker C: So if you want to contact her, you want to get in that brain, you let me know and I'll ask her or you a call. Nobody ever called except Baylor, and we love Baylor. [01:34:37] Speaker D: I left the message. You can leave a message. If you want to get to me, you can leave me a message. [01:34:41] Speaker C: Yes, please. You know what I'm saying? And tell us some things you left for the next. [01:34:46] Speaker A: Yes. [01:34:47] Speaker D: And don't forget to be great. [01:34:50] Speaker C: Yeah, bye. [01:34:52] Speaker D: I can do anything I want to [01:34:53] Speaker C: do, even though I'll do a lot. [01:34:57] Speaker A: We love it. [01:34:59] Speaker B: I'm a call. I'm. Leave something. I'm. Say something crazy. [01:35:02] Speaker D: Whoa. [01:35:02] Speaker A: Oh. You know I'm a child. [01:35:04] Speaker C: I just built a budgeting app and basically. [01:35:05] Speaker A: All right, bye. [01:35:08] Speaker B: We out. [01:35:09] Speaker A: We out, baby.