Be normal as possible

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Go out to LA Comin from the city where no pity is. Shell. Shell. Somebody need to do a song for la. Straight up. Hello, my name is Elaine and I'll be your tour guide through South Central Los Angeles. Look, count my nose. Smoke up. I'm from California, where you from? So what? I'm from California. Cal. California. California. This is Los Angeles. Well, where? [00:00:32] Speaker B: This is a friendly reminder that nobody actually gives a about you. Everybody is in their own world, doing their own thing, their own problems in life. And in the same way that you will see a video like this and forget about it, in an hour or two, they will see you doing whatever you're doing and forget about it in a day or two. Sure, people may think you're weird, they may judge you, they may have their criticisms. But at the end of the day, nothing actually matters unless you give it meaning. So the next time you're worried about what other people are thinking of you, the judgments of other people, just remember that it's all in your own head and it only matters if you give it meaning. Get out of your own way, allow yourself to be in the world and watch as magic unfolds. [00:01:39] Speaker A: That's true because I still see people still talk to people and I think they still struggle with the same struggles. Is worried about what other people think or even worried about what other people say at this point. I've heard within the past what week or two. One of the hot topics was Dochi where she said what she said about straight men being a red flag. I'm 42 years old, she not talking to me. Why is everybody so bent up? And why is somebody upset at her personal comment? Well, it's not personal because she shared it, but she's bisexual, she's 26 years old. Her red flag mean the same red flags that we used to say back in the day, nobody cares. We probably are in one of the slowest and dumbest eras of all time in Earth history. Because every time somebody say something, we gotta debate about it, we gotta say something about it. Most of the time it's negative. That's why it's so refreshing to see something dope. So it's like refreshing now. It's not just what the standards was back in the 90s or the 80s or something. Whatever we consider fresh, that's a old one or dope. It was the standard like we. That's what it was. It was normal too. And now you can't be normal. Do people. I cannot continue to give people a pass for like doing stupid Stuff and just saying they just don't realize or they just don't understand or they just don't see it. Nah, I think y'all niggas know what y'all be doing. I think y'all think. I think y'all know what y'all be saying. Why y'all be saying it. You want to talk about clout chasing era now you might say, well, again, you shouldn't worry about what people think, so I should do what I want to do. Yeah, but at what cost, though? At what cost? Because a lot of you niggas is just saying stuff just for clicks. Lot of bad takes opinions. Yes, opinions are opinions and they belong to you. But that don't mean that them motherfuckers is stupid, though. You know, Again, dude, we don't have to respond to everything. I listen to a lot of podcasts, some of my favorites, and they say dumb damn near almost every episode. Something, you know, even to the professionals as well. We all rush. Not all. You know, I can hear some of y'all saying, I don't listen to Joe Button in the one. If you own Twitter or on ig, you gonna catch a clip or two whether you listen to the show or not. But you're gonna catch a clip or two and you niggas gonna complain about that. And they keep feeding and farming y'all into the same shit weekly. Niggas is tired of hearing what Melissa Ford is talking about at this point. You gotta understand who she is and what she represents. I think she's one of the dopest POD co hosts that Joe has ever had. But at the same time, nigga, ever since she got into that little back and forth with, well, I wouldn't consider it a back and forth. She got ethered by cam'ron. Like she ain't been the same since. But it has shown over the past. I don't know when it happened about a year ago. About a year or two ago. Ever since then, her shit been downhill. Now she has her highs and whatever deal she got. I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about as far as her personality and how she portrays herself on the show. She says a lot of shit. That I'll be like, God damn, Alyssa. At the same time, though, it shouldn't change my mood, you know, it's nothing to debate about, but yet and still will go online, right? Rightfully so, to be entertained. And we'll see a young lady say, if a man says that he prefers a natural woman that doesn't wear Makeup, or at least doesn't wear makeup all the time. That's a red flag because the nigga might be broke and can't support my makeup habits. I've never met a nigga who was required to buy any type of makeup that is. There's not a woman out there that can point and say, I told my wife this. You can't tell me what type of. What type of haircut to get. You can't buy. No, you can't do. You could pay for the haircut. You could pay for the haircut all you want, but you can't say, get that. No, I've been getting haircuts before I met you, nigga. I know what type of haircut I want to get, and I prefer me to pick the haircut. Just like you. Probably the average woman is going to pick her makeup and get her makeup. Now you can get some money to go get the makeup. Makeup is not that expensive. Now, don't get me wrong, the Chanel and Fendi and shit like that, my wife told me, put me up on game. No, that. That could. That could be a bag. That could be a bag. But for the average person. And to the niggas that I'm talking to, you not buying that type of. Just because y'all niggas listening to Drake and Party Next door doesn't mean y'all going to go get the makeup that they talking about. Y'all gotta stop. Y'all are the red flags. We gotta stop this. We gotta. We don't have to respond to everything like it's. Again, friends, family. And I check all my family at this point, I'm on a journey, right? No co workers can get nothing off. Damn sure no friends can get nothing off. Not gonna let none of my family members get nothing off. Podcasters, yeah, I'm not worried about them because probably half of the cats that I listen to weekly or bi weekly or whatever, half of them cats, I take it with a grain of salt, them niggas just doing it. It's content. Even if they did really feel like that, niggas probably had a bad childhood. But at the end of the day, it's still entertaining, but you could just hear the clout chasing in it. You could hear the forced debates and a lot of shit that we don't necessarily need to be debating or arguing about. Be yourself. I think I have an episode about it already, which is be comfortable with being yourself. There is no. They is not really no rules to this shit, you know what I'm saying? Like if, hey, you live your life, how you. As long as you don't harm anybody. You've heard this before, nigga, do what you gotta do. Do what you gotta do. I listen to niggas every week and be like, yeah, whatever. I don't agree with. I just don't agree. I'm not about to text nobody. I mean, unless it's just one of those. Like King Germ, his podcast pod, and saved our marriage. He has one of Those engaging podcasts, 12 cow, too. They got those type of podcasts that you want to engage in even if it causes some type of debate or healthy argument. As my son walks in at 2 o'clock in the morning messing with floozies, why would you wave? It's all audio. Sure. It's time for bed now. Yes. And I lost my train of thought. I lost my train of thought. I don't even know what I was talking about anymore, but I lost it. Oh, no, no. So the engaging podcast, King Germ 12 Cal, they'll have, you know, especially with 12 Cal, he'll have more of the sports. I mean, not sports, the music. And it just sparks up a great debate whether I agree with whatever opinions he have towards any type of music, album or artist. I can go text, we can go in the group chat, or I can hit them on the side and it's like, boom, boom, boom. Oh, recently we just had a. I wouldn't necessarily say a debate, but more of a sharing of information. When me and Brit had a previous show about a nostalgia show about fashion, and we brought up K Swiss, and out here, out west, we Rock K Swiss. 12 Cal heard the episode, said to the group chat and said, hey, where I'm from, the women wore K Swiss and it was forbidden. It was shunned that the men wore K Swiss out there where he's from. I said, nah, it was the total opposite. Total. The extreme total opposite. When it came to case was out here, and I even identified case was, even though it was a regular pedestrian shoe out here between male and male and female, young and old, I still identified it as a gang member shoe. Yeah, I seen a lot of gang members wear the motherfuckers both flags. That's where I grew up, in Southern California, Los Angeles, Watts, Eastside, Inglewood, nigga, you name it. Compton, I'd have been all over. I done lived in damn near every main city, hood city, though, that is, you know what I mean? So when we talk about, like I said, when we talk about the west, la, when we Talk about Inglewood. When we talk about the east side, when you talk about Watts, when you talk about Compton. I stayed in all of them. Stayed in all of them multiple times. You know, I seen a gang of niggas walking around with blue jeans. Pendletons. K swears a lot of gang members was wearing them, but besides that, everybody was wearing them. Everybody. I even sent him a YouTube video that was produced by Baron Davis, out of all people. And it showed that it talked about the history of K. Swiss. So I was like, yeah, it's just different. But those are the friendly debates that we talk about or friendly topics that can spark a debate. King James, same way he will have so many. He got a few segments in his podcast. On his podcast where you could easily debate and talk about something. Got a top 10 every. Every show where it talks about anywhere between what's the poorest top 10 cities or the richest top 10 cities. And you know what I'm saying, when it comes to the US And I mean, the numbers are there, but it's. Everything is still friendly and debatable. Still friendly. Me and him go back and forth between Drake, Kendrick and Cole this whole year, and we just finished talking about it recently, you know what I mean? But. And then. And then that's it. That's where it stops. But it's niggas really online that don't like Drake, that don't like Kendrick. I've seen people go at Cole, but I think Cole is like. He's like in the middle. Middle child. See what I did there? It's like, we all disappointed. We all still disappointed in J. Cole. That's not. I don't think that'll ever go away. That's one stain on his jacket that just won't go away. You know what I mean? The. The most he can do at this point is go. He gotta go verbally killing on a record. And even then, it's like, nigga, you know? But at the same time, I think he has built up enough equity in his career to where niggas overlook it. But we'll never forget it. Will never forget it. You know, this is really online. Going back and forth. The whole Twitter or slash X is like. It's nasty. It's like conservative. It's like conservative people versus liberal people all over again. You know what I mean? What was crazy was we had. I had a friendly little. Not. Not necessarily a debate, but I have Tesla. I got it. We're a Tesla family. We used to be a Toyota Camry family. Now we're a Tesla family due to the fact that the distance of that I have to drive for work. Oil changes, brakes, all that kicking my ass. So we converted over to Tesla about a year. About a year ago, I think. About a year ago, right? And then obviously, what's going on in the world with Elon and Trump and shit like that? You got people setting Tesla lots and buildings on fire, you got cybertrucks being attacked, all kind of shit, you know what I'm saying? And I was at work and I was standing by a Tesla, but there was a cybertruck parked in the parking lot as well. And I remember seeing a guy earlier, he was like, taking pictures or something like that. Nice cyber. I mean, a ugly. But I'm saying it was a clean cyber truck. And this guy was talking with another guy and he's like, dogs was running around. It's in the parking lot. I can't tell you where I'm at because just. I just couldn't tell you where I was at. I was in Inglewood, though, and guy asked me, he said, hey, man, is that. Is that your cyber truck? I was like, nah, not mine. He was like, yeah, I've been. I've been seeing a lot of cybertruck get a. You know, vandalized and stuff like that, spray painted on and, you know, dents and all kind of shit like that. I'm like, nah. I was like, anybody to attack my shit, they're gonna have to pay for it. He's like, but you wouldn't know. I said, that's true, that's true. But if I did catch them, you know, that's what I mean. And he was like, man, you've been hearing what's been going on with these Tesla with these cybertrucks, right? And I was like, well, yeah, Connie's like, man, do you pay attention to politics? I'm like, I do. I just don't emotionally. I don't invest myself in it, right? And we just started talking and he started talking and he was like, yeah, I'm. You know, because I'm from Africa. And then he looked. I ain't gonna say he looked familiar, but I'm just checking him out. Clean cut guy, older guy, obviously. He looked like he was probably somewhere late 50s, early 60s maybe, you know what I'm saying? Somewhere around there, you know, anywhere between mid-50s to mid-60s. I would say somewhere in between there. And he was like, hey, man, have you ever heard of Nipsey Hussle? And I was like, yeah. He was like, I'm his uncle. I was like, word? He was like, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, they dad, that's my brother. And then he started, he started talking about all these stories about Nip and Black Sam and like their houses and businesses that they built and stuff. Like we talked for about a solid 20, 30 minutes in the parking lot, just standing there in the middle of the parking lot, just talking or whatever and. But the reason I was bringing that up because he sparked up a, not necessarily a debate, but he was like, yeah, you know, I know you've been hearing about what's going on with these Teslas and stuff like that and these cybertrucks and stuff. I was like, yeah, man. But I never got to tell him, like, man, the main reason I got a Tesla was commute reasons. You know, style wise, they solid cars, don't get me wrong. I like them, you know what I'm saying? Especially the Model X solid, you know, not knocking it at all. And it took me a while to get. I ain't gonna say, I mean it took me about a week to get used to. On how to drive it. But you know, like I said, coming up on, almost coming up on. Well, no, I still got a little bit. I got a couple more months before it's a full year. But I'm like, man, the benefits of having one, it's outweighs the, the gas vehicles. I mean, considering how much we pay for gas in general. But the maintenance, not having that maintenance on my shoulders. I said that shit has been a blessing. Now there's still some upkeeping and you still gotta go back, you know, from time to time to get your windshield wiper fluid filled up. You know what I'm saying? But outside of that, bro, you gotta keep the tires up and I mean in general just keep your car clean. But my God, just not having to deal with the, with the. When the maintenance of a regular car is just. Is dope. But I understand how people can be side eyeing and looking at people that drive a Tesla dog is nothing I could do about that. I'm playing the game. I'm playing the game. But I did find out that there was a all black electric car company in Atlanta I would love. And those Rivians is calling shout out to my wife. We definitely. And that's the goal. That's the goal is to get to those Rivians. That's what I want to get to. But again, I don't want to get too far off topic. It's friendly debates that I get from King Germ, shout out to him. Friendly debates that I have with 12 Cal. And there's other people as well, but shout out to Stone, you know, funny guy, man. That's my guy. It's just funny. But none of this shit should be taken personal. Just do you go out and do you. I've tried to motivate so many friends in this world and sometimes it feels like I'm wasting my breath. Cause it's like, just do it. You know, I used to push my wife to say, hey man, just make more videos, you know, you. But I had to realize that she not into that. You know, she is in a couple of videos, she's in other content creator videos and she don't really care for it. She doesn't care for the spot spotlight, she doesn't care for the attention, you know what I'm saying? She, she's a scroller though. She's definitely gonna scroll. And I don't think she minds the attention, but she doesn't seek it. And when you don't seek, when you don't seek for the attention, when you don't, you know, go to cloud chasing route, it can feel uncomfortable, you know what I'm saying? When it's time to make content. But every year towards the end of the year, we make our. Well, it was supposed to, but haven't been as consistent. But we'll make our New Year video sometimes. We usually do both New Year and Christmas videos, but kind of falling off considering last year we took a trip for Christmas, birthday, you know what I'm saying? And then New Year we were in damn near almost in the sky. Well, we got the day before. I would say I thought we was going to be celebrating in the sky considering, you know, how far the trip was, but we end up getting out there before the ball dropped. But no, just, just do you man, just do you just go out there and just do it. As long you not harming people, whether it's physically or verbally, just go do, go do you man. Starting clothing lines do. Everybody can't podcast, bro. Some of y'all need come up, calm down, do some feature. That's what we need to propose before you become a podcaster. Go do a minimum of 15 podcasts. And out of the 15 is how they gotta be. At least five different podcasts. So that's almost, that's damn near almost five podcasts. No, let me see. Not 15. Maybe about 10. 10, 10 episodes. 10 episodes. Maybe I, I should, I should make it 10 different podcasts. Yeah, go do go do 10 different podcasts, 10 episodes, and then come back and then press record and say, hey, this is my podcast. This is what it's about. And spit that shit. Make sure it's worthwhile. Make sure that shit is entertaining. Hey, don't come out here messing up no relationships. No what I mean by that, I'm not talking about other people relationships. Like build a follower base, build a foundation, go support other people. Podcasts, that's how it goes, you know what I'm saying? A lot of this shit is transactional. Like niggas is gonna listen to your podcast if you listen to their podcast. Niggas gonna send feedback. And if you send feedback and some. Some relationships is just like that. The moment you stop sending feedback, then them gonna start feeding bags. The moment you stop listening, maybe they might not know, you know what I'm saying? But if they judging based off of you sending feedback from time to time or something like that, they might stop listening to your. You never know. But get it together. Be yourself. You know what I'm saying? It's too much fakeness walking around here. This planet. They still getting bbw. Bbl, Is it bbls? They still doing that without the proper. Just everything is done for attention, just depending on the level of it. And I'm not even mad at it. I'm just saying some of this shit looks bad and sometimes you just. Okay. I thought it was a trend where they was taking that shit out anyway. Just be yourself, man. Just be yourself. If you having dating problems now, I'm starting to. I'm not even blaming the other niggas. I'm not blaming the other women. I'm not blaming the other man. I'm blaming you now if you can't figure it out at this point, I don't know what to say. I don't know what. I don't know what it is because are still keep. They just keep busting Red. My God, dog. This is crazy, dog. Literally have one life to live and you got to make the best of it. That's a fact. You have to make the best of the journey that you going through. At some point you gonna reach an age and shit is gonna click. You're gonna hit a road. When I get uncomfortable, that means there's a change coming. And most of the time it's like with work, you know what I mean? So it's like I gotta be prepared for it. I know what I don't like. I know the results that I don't like. And I know in Order to change everything, I gotta move a certain way. I've realized within the past couple of years, well, at least in my job, I seen what comfortable is from other people. And that's not me knocking them, that's not me judging them. But at the same time that shit can rub off on you, you know what I mean? But at the same time you gotta keep moving, you gotta keep wanting to not necessarily make more money, although that's what people want to do. They gonna say they want to do majority of the time is just make more money. But in order you have to keep moving. In some cases you gotta go to a next level within that level. You can move from left to right, run back and stuff like that. But eventually you're going to have to lead that level and go to the next level. That might come with a little bit more discipline. That might come with just putting a lot of shit to the side and that going to come with some judgment. But you got to continue to be you. Me and the fellas just talked about it today where I seen a clip, this was kind of major and me and the homie spoke about this and I said we might, we might do an episode on this and he said he gotta be a part of it. But it kinda went off. [00:26:41] Speaker C: One of my siblings a car, really My mama a house, My mama two cars. My daddy a car. Help him with his bills, help mama with her bills, Help my sister take care of her three kids. Her three kids live with me. I go there, sit with the teachers, go to teacher conferences. I do all this stuff. And it seemed like the more you do, the more that they don't like you. I think that for me I overlooked how much my sister, you know, started disliking me, you know what I'm saying? I didn't know. I never done nothing to her. I don't want to get emotional, you know what I'm saying? But me and my sister got the same mama and same daddy and we grew up together. And you know, she just, you work so hard to make all this money and to have a good life for yourself and then the people who you want to share it with, they just change on you. People don't want what you give them, they want what you have. [00:27:25] Speaker A: That's crazy. That's crazy. And me and the homies was talking about that and we was talking about the success we've had and all of it is just family based though. My main goal is not to flaunt or brag or anything like that. But I'M gonna show my W's. I'm gonna show my W's. My W's was gonna be shown. Whether social media was involved or not, somebody's gonna hear about it, somebody was gonna know about it, niggas was gonna see pictures or it was gonna be word of mouth. It just so happened that social media gives the opportunity for more than just your inner circle or the surrounding people around you to see those W's attention, you know what I mean? But the video was basically talking about givers versus takers. And no matter how much you give, they going, they going to continue to take and take and to use. Cut it off. And then there's hate. It went from take to hate. And for some people, it's hard for them to deal with people that was supporting them or, you know, needing support from them, turn on them. And emotionally that could be a problem. Not for me. Those emotions is almost dead, extremely dormant because of my journey in life with losing both parents. A lot of that. A lot of that emotion just died with them. To be honest, everybody didn't have the same journey, you know, Some people had it worse, you know, and some people just never had. Wouldn't understand where I'm coming from. But at the same time, I still feel like we should move the same way. You know what I mean? You don't have to. You can't please everybody. You won't be able to please everybody. KDOT said, forgive me, you know what I'm saying, for not saving the world, but I was. Shit, I'm too busy trying to save myself. You gotta take care of yourself. You got to continue to be. You can't take care of yourself if you don't know who you are. You're gonna keep trying to enhance and add on, maybe subtract, you know what I'm saying? Change up. And you ain't even got to do all that is not that important. Like in the beginning of the video. A lot of these ain't gonna remember you unless you do something. Unless you step out and do something different and be consistent with it. Niggas are you gonna disagree with nigga every day? I disagree with niggas all the time. Just keep it fun. I'm not gonna. I haven't lost no sleep. I got some phenomenal sleep at work the other day. It's not going to stop. It's nothing you could do to get under my skin. There's nothing you can do to offend me. Everything is a joke. And if I, if I. If I don't take you serious. That means you not you. Not even close enough to offend me. Nah. And then even some. Like, again, I told you, I've listened to certain podcasters. I'm like, man, this is going downhill because it's. It just feels. It feels like I'm just trying to garner some attention. It's ugly at the same time, I'll tell you. That's entertainment. I know. Is it? It's not like niggas are down bad, but it's like, once you go viral a couple of times, this shit can be kind of addictive. So I can get that. And plus, if you trying to push out a brand, then I, I, I ain't gonna say I get it, but I, I definitely understand that this is the route you choose. You know what I'm saying? To push the brand, you gonna say some wild shit about a celebrity or athlete or a hot topic. Just like the woman just said she's in. The woman that said the. About the makeup, she has went viral. Multiple podcasts have talked about it, and it's like, we all on the same page. We not. What am I? What? Man, shut up and go pay for your makeup and put it on the correct way. Don't look like a goddamn clown. At the end of the day, makeup is to enhance your beauty that you already have. What happened to niggas just being okay with what happened, where we can't even. We can't even like women? That's natural. What is wrong with you niggas? Oh, everybody is lying. Everybody is lying, bro. And niggas is on. Hey, N is on TV is online saying some of the dumbest hot takes, like, trying to be the next one. You got this plumber nigga running around taking his shirt off every five minutes trying to fight niggas, and then he's crying. You want to talk about mental health being displayed on TV in front of us every day? Like, this has been. This nigga has been having breakdowns and. And. And nigga been wanting to fight every goddamn day, and they just milking this nigga for content. But because he's getting any attention like that, that nigga gonna keep doing it. It's like the attention is the new currency. That shit getting wild, bro. Like, yeah, y'all niggas gotta start being comfortable with y'all selves and go find the winners. I remember I got some backlash for saying, yo, when it comes to this marriage shit, I don't listen to niggas that lost. I don't. I don't care. How disrespectful it sounds. I don't. I used to. I used to butter it up or. Or. Or try to make it sound good. No, nigga, I'm telling you, I'm not listening to the lose. The niggas that lost before. I've lost before in the marriage I've gotten. I'm the one that filed a divorce, so I've lost the marriage before. I'm not about to go to another nigga that loss. I know how to lose, nigga. I need to know how to win. I need to talk to people who've been married for 10, 15, 20, 25 or more years until I don't want the blueprint. I don't want your blueprint because it's personal. But I just need to know what moves you made, how you made the moves, what you said, how you said it. That's all. And then I go. I implement all that. I take that game, apply it to my marriage, see what works and what doesn't work, and then, boom. Next thing you know, 14 years in the game. 14 years married that nigga. That's a long time. I'm not about to sit up here and listen to a nigga that lost. I gotta listen to the winners. I gotta listen. Something is wrong with niggas. Something is wrong with the niggas that has won so much. I want to listen to see. As much as I criticize these niggas, I want to hear what Tom Brady got to say. I want to hear what MJ got to say. I want to hear what Mamba got to say. To a certain degree, the N Braun, I gotta let. The nigga has been in the league for 20 years. He might know a little bit something about durability and endurance and taking care of your body during and in the off season. There's something to be said about that. There's something. And niggas, look, I can see the identity crisis in certain. Get y'all shit together. Niggas is online, watching everybody. We all watching each other. Some of us are in different stages of life. If there's niggas out there that's doing good, I can only pray that they going back and telling people how to get there. Same thing with me. But I'm still. I'm. I'm on. I'm on my. I'm working on my way to being better, acknowledging that, knowing that, hey, I want to get better, knowing that everything that y'all arguing about isn't real. The just told y'all in the Beginning of the video, we gonna all forget this. Unless y'all save it or bookmark it. Gonna forget about that video. You. There's nothing you can do to impress me. If you want to impress me, set some goals and achieve all of them. And then tell me how you did that. That's what impresses me. You telling me how to run a marriage, how to get at women or what business moves to make and stuff like that. If I haven't seen it on your side, then why am I even paying attention to you? I got to know me before I can trust you. And I know that if I don't see, if I don't see the footsteps even to a degree. Even though I said I don't want to listen to any not losers. But I got to know. I want to know the origin story. You know, I'm saying that helps. But I want to also know after the origin story and the times you falling down now, I need to know the recipe on how you got those championships. I don't want to keep hearing how you niggas keep losing. Don't want to hear that. It's easy to learn how to lose. We know that the struggle is winning and let alone putting a season together, making it to the playoffs, going to the championship and winning that and then even trying to be the best player in the finals, to be the mvp. I need that ingredient. I need that tutorial. Not a telling me how to lose. I know how to lose. There no game you could teach me on that. That's. And that wouldn't even be considered game. That's just you telling me or how you fucked up or what you messed up on. Let me tell you, there's people out there that's going to try to take advantage of you emotionally. Cut that shit off. Don't answer your phone, don't reply to no text messages. None of that shit. Cold hearted, cold turkey if you need to. That's the best way to go these days. That's the only way people understand that shit. Straight answers. Did you like that? No, stop yo. And stop acknowledging goofy ass whack ass jokes. If this not funny, don't laugh, don't type, don't type. Lol. Don't send no emoji. Don't put I'm crying, no lmao. None of that. If it's not. If it's not funny, don't respond to it. If it's not positive, don't answer that phone call. Don't got to respect your boundaries. At one point, they not Gonna do that unless you know yourself. Be yourself. Be yourself. And look, here's the best advice I can give you right here, right now. Stop being a little bitch. Go ahead. You can do that right now. We gotta figure that. Hey, we gotta figure this out. Because look, now I'm at the point where just cut off season. Hey, if you haven't checked in with me, I'm not going to check in with you. I'm not going to take it personal. I'm just deleting and emptying. That's it. You hit me up when you ready. Because I'm tired of hitting everybody else up and not receiving it back. It's too much on you. If you are that person that gives and gives and gives. That's as small as FaceTimes, phone calls, text messages, DMs, sharing videos, TikToks, you know what I'm saying? All of that shit tagging. If you the person that do that most the most and you not receiving that, start cutting these off. Cut these niggas off. You gonna like it. It's phenomenal. I've done. You gotta come to this side. You gotta come to the side. Being direct with niggas, ignoring. See, my ignoring game is. Is. Is deletion. Like I've. We could be in the same room. We could be co workers. We gonna be the last two niggas on the planet. I will proceed to go about my day as if you are not right there. I will walk around you, I'll even say, excuse me, and still consider you not there. Come on inside. It's phenomenal over here. It's phenomenal. Trust me. There has been some badass opinions that I've been hearing about any and every topic, some even close to home. Ignore all that shit. Ignore all of it. Now we're talking to a, you know, we're talking about a person that has problems with the discipline in certain areas. I don't have a discipline problem when it comes to not fucking with people. Oh, that. That's my most consistent training. That's my most consistent trade. But it's the. It's the discipline that I need in other areas that I need to work on personally. That has nothing to do with other people. That's the one I'm talking about. But as far as you. No, I'm just saying be disciplined on not being around fuck shit. And it's real easy. Cut these niggas off. It's fun. That shit is cool. Keep relationships where they at. Don't is no need to advance them there's no need to. To go backwards or anything like that. No. If. Hey, move at your own pace. You know what I'm saying? Set your boundaries, bitch. Set your prices. Hey, for now on any crew, necks, hoodies, $100 out the gate. You might get more than just that. $100 out the gate. You either gonna buy something or you not. And I've been perfectly fine with that. Shout out to Stone. That's my. It's my number one customer of all time. I'll doubt any of you that ever beat him. That's my nigga. That's one of the. That's one of the purest supporters I've ever had when it come to this. Merge games. My nigga, Stone. L. Tail replay. Forget that. Your co host. Yes, that nigga. Okay? The nigga that just sent $100 and say, figure this shit out. No problems, no complaints. You gonna get the best of the best. Tapped here. Break the A, get the equipment out, send it right back. That's my guy. Everybody else is in second, third place to that nigga. I'm talking about 15. 0 in the se in the season. Automatic bid to. Automatic bid to the pro, to a bowl game. The rest of y'all, not when it come to him. That's the truth. That's the truth. So anything. Any orders in the future that don't. That don't start with a 1 00. It ain't happening. It ain't happening. Don't get me wrong. There's some shirts out there that's gonna be cheaper than that. But my. No. Hell no. I don't give a. How expensive those eggs is. You buy some merch over here, you're gonna be spending. You're going to be spending. Especially if you can hit me up directly. If you talk to me directly. They get signed, a dollar man gets fucking up. That's where I'm at with it. But I'm on your side because I want y'all niggas to win a lot. I want. I'm rooting for y'all. I'm just not calling you. I'm not calling. I'm not. I'm not. I'll return a call and I'll call you if you call me. I'm not calling nobody. I might. I'm lying. I called. Be honest. That's my okay. Because be honest. Called me one time just to check on me. Caught me off guard. She made me nervous. What the. I thought I was in trouble. I thought I was in some type of sound check. Quality Type trouble because I have messed up to where I didn't check my sound levels before I started recording. And he would be on my bumper pause if needed, you know what I mean? And he'll cut my. Hey, there's a couple of episodes where I had some music playing that made sense in the episode, but he had to cut him out because of, you know. You know, so copyright type shit. But it went phenomenal with the episode. But that's what I. Hey, that's my n. Shout out to him. The reason why this shit is crisp is because of him. And my bill is due, too. Don't worry. I'm sending that over. Beyond builders do. But be yourself, man. It's going. It's all right. Hey, Because I ain't. I'm already judging you. I just judge everybody. It's okay to judge people. Sometimes y'all do some stupid, and I got to judge you. And sometimes I just judge you just to see if I was right. Just to see if I was right. Sometimes I'd be wrong. I'm cool with being wrong. Sometimes I'd be right. Some of y'all is weird, okay? Some of y'all niggas is moving weird, and I'm just. You gonna have to start calling niggas out on it. Start calling. Hey, look, I don't have any emotional baggage. Wrong. Okay? Get your shit together. When I feel like sharing my two cents, advice, uplifting, I'll do. So a lot of that shit about to be limited. I need. I need. Because I need to reserve some for myself. I know myself, so I'm a need to. I need you to do the same thing. It's okay to do that. I seen somebody tweet. I haven't had a good day like this in a very long time. Something like that. And I. And I felt happy for them. I did. I even responded to the tweet. I'm like, because that's dope. That's the type of energy I like to see. Besides all that bullshit I've been seeing online. It's a lot going on, man. What is wrong with y'all niggas, man? I'm about sick. I think it's just me getting older. Like, my mindset at 42 feels like it should be at, like, 70. Where. Where them elderly people is just sick of y'all. I'm about sick of y'all. Seriously, I am. Because it's just y'all. I don't know. What do y'all be talking about? What do y'all be talking About. It's a. For the most part, I haven't learned nothing from y'all. Nothing valuable. Well, I mean, some people, but for the most part, I haven't learned nothing. Still entertaining, though. I should say that. But shout out to Jarvis because the entertainment has been empty calories. Been empty calories. You know what I mean? It's just bag of chips. Remember bag of chips back in the day used to be like 25 cents. Feel like it had more chips in a bag, too. Now the motherfuckers is like a dollar, bitches. For. It's four Doritos in this bag, and this costs a dollar. They used to be 4 4$, man. Back in elementary, when Mortal Kombat first came out, that's when them chips was banging like that. Yo, who picked Funyuns as a. As a Funyuns? Somebody recently either heard my episode. It was told about my episode, and they picked Funyuns. The is wrong with y'all, man. Now, don't get me wrong. That was an old hood chip right there that she didn't taste. That was a. It was a. That was garlic onions. Was just a garlic chip. Niggas used to eat Funyuns, though. Funyun. That's bunions Is like. Bunions is like hood, right? Bunions is like a. Is like the neighborhood hood rat for that time. Yeah, man. And they tried to. I don't. I don't know when they did this one. I don't know when they decided to go like the. The. The hot chip Funyun version, but that never would. That's not it. That's not it. So whoever that was that picked Funyuns, I don't know, dude. Again, I don't want to be a hypocrite, because if his fun is you, do you. Do you? Okay? Make sure you do you. And do be authentic, okay? Nobody. Hey, Nobody cares. Nobody cares. The only people. The people that do care about you, that's the one you should just try to continue to impress. Because everybody else, we don't need it. We don't need to know. We don't need it. Just give us the finished product and then give us the 30. 30 for 30 on how you did it later. I don't need the play by play right now. Okay? Get your shit together. All right? Shout out to everybody, man.